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American Woman, Stay Away from Me

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This is a guest post by Fisto.

American Women vs. Women Worldwide

Every nail, board, brick, piece of carpet, light fixture, wiring, plumbing, and kitchen you see was placed in every building by some man.

Every machine that produces something was designed and built by a man.

Every vehicle that drives, every plane or jet that flies, ever ship ever built was produced by men.

Every drop of oil that’s pulled from the ground that powers the world was done so by men.

Every scientific discovery of any consequence was made by a man (with only a few notable exceptions). In other words, men built this world we all live in, for better or worse. Men make the world happen.

If women were truly the same as men, some evidence of their ability to produce something of value or merit would have surfaced beyond the occasional outlier by now.

It may sound like I hate women, and surely some feminist will call me a misogynist for this article. Nothing could be further from the truth. I love women. What I hate is the sorry social state Western women, and more specifically American women, have devolved to.

I am by no means the most well-traveled person I know, but I have been to fifteen different countries and spent extensive time in each, which allowed me to gain a deeper understanding of their cultures and also the women in them. I was never just some tourist, stopping by a particular point of interest to snap a quick photo and post it to my Facebook pretending to be cultured (I’m not on Facebook). I try to experience the real life at any given place. I travel by myself with the intent of befriending locals and getting into adventures. Hell, when I was I Vietnam I was invited to a wedding in Jakarta, Indonesia and I went.

Every person that knows me will vouch for my success with women. I am not trying to brag, rather I am establishing a baseline understanding of why I can say with some authority that American women are inferior in every way. Here’s why.

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American Women Are Inferior to Other Women Worldwide

If men produce virtually everything, if they are the protectors and conquerors, if they are the reason anything actually gets done in the world, then what exactly do women bring to the table?

A woman’s value lies in her role as a loyal confidant, her ability to manage a household, her charm and grace, and finally her feminine beauty. Today’s American woman is so deficient in all these areas it would be laughable if it weren’t so tragically destructive to American society and the rest of the Western world.

Loyal Confidant

In the past a man’s wife or mistress would buttress him with her powerful and feminine support. He could ask her advice on matters involving decisions where he needed counsel. Today’s American woman thinks she is on a reality sitcom, and anything you tell her will be shared with all of her friends and then filed away for use against you in the future when you have worn out your usefulness. This is a result of her insatiable hunger for attention. Women are natural gossips, but with the rise of feminist laws that make divorce economically in her best interest combined with this relatively new social phenomenon of attention whoring, you can bet that you are not her number one priority.

In the past a woman knew that when her husband rose in stature, she and the family did too, but now she will be regarded as a Strong, Independent Woman™ for divorce-raping you. When a culture celebrates single motherhood as a woman being brave when in reality she’s just dropping her kids off at her parents and partying with her girlfriends on child support wages, you as a man aren’t anything more than an interchangeable provider. Compare that with some of the sweetest, most feminine girls I met in the Philippines, where I would sit and write and girls would rub my shoulders, ask about my life, and make a sincere effort to comfort me. Western women look at these girls as if they’re stupid and misguided, yet few American women have a successful relationship in the course of their lives.

Ability to Manage a Household

This is very important if a man wants to achieve greatness. When the bills are being paid on time, nutritious meals are cooked, and there is a general sense of peace at home because a woman values the man she’s with, he is more productive. This in turn means she is being productive because this environment she’s cultivated has played its role.

Women everywhere love to cook for their men; it’s part of their upbringing. In the Dominican Republic, girls will beg you to let them cook for you.

Today’s “independent” woman doesn’t give a damn about this. She is more interested in her own career, which is understandable on the surface of things until you consider the types of careers women choose. You will not find many female engineers or doctors. If you do they will be “civil” engineers (the ones with the least specialization) or general practitioners (again, the doctors with the least specialization). Of course, when feminist writers talk about the wage gap between men and women, they make no distinction between a mechanical or chemical engineer (who is much more rigorously trained) or an orthopedic surgeon (ditto), but that is off-topic.

The bottom line is that women think they have no reason to support their husbands, because you are viewed as a companion that serves her, not someone she’s supposed to help aspire to greatness.

Charm and Grace

In days past, a man would have his friends and colleagues over for coffee, dinner, or perhaps poker. His wife would be the consummate host: looking pretty for him was her priority; she would accept compliments on her dress or dinner with a grace that complimented her husband; she would deflect comments that were too forward with a politeness that would leave the speaker feeling ashamed for stepping out of place. The girls I dated in Vietnam were all like this. One girl, Chau, would even insist on viewing every bill after dinner to make sure I didn’t pay too much. She would go get beers for THC and me. It was so refreshing. She only wanted to spend as much of the short time I had there with me.

Today’s American woman is as crass and crude as any man. Regularly speaking in vulgarities that would make sailors of an earlier era blush, today’s Western females can’t even be bothered to put on makeup before going out during the day. A recent conversation with a girl really drove home the point. I was talking to a girl whose parents were Russian, but she herself had been raised in America. She had just recently returned from her first visit to the country and was telling me about how “awful” it was there. Her narrative was so laced with the word “like” that I had to force myself to listen. Her biggest complaint was that one morning when her cousins were going to take her to do some sightseeing, they all woke up relatively early, and she donned her sandals, put her hair in a ponytail and adorned herself with a baseball cap. With self-righteous indignation, she described how her female cousin came to her, took off her baseball cap and said “You are not a man, go change and look like a woman.”

Women in less Westernized countries take pride in their appearance. They want to look pretty for their men and they want them to be pleased with how they look. They’re usually much more fit and they take care of themselves. When I was at the beach in Boracay, I was looking at the local girls so thin and gorgeous, and then right next to them were these land whales from Australia (comparable to the US in terms of fattitude). It turned my stomach.

Feminine Beauty

American women today dress like prostitutes of the past. They regularly go out without any money with the sole purpose of soliciting free drinks. They go in groups with their friends and hang around men who have paid for tables in hopes of being invited over, drink as much for free as they can, and the go to the next table.

American women have gotten to the point of insanity with their sense of entitlement. They expect doors to be held open and dinner to be paid for, ridicule men for not being gentlemen and complain about inequality, all while demanding more and more; yet they don’t offer the slightest hint of ladylike grace or value.

Only a fool that would marry one of these creatures. There is almost no way to combat this beast. American women, manginas and white knights will talk about how my views are from the Stone Age and how women deserve equal rights. And I agree, they do deserve equality, I never said they didn’t, but that means divorce is equal.

I think women should willingly do what I’ve said.

Not because they are forced to.

Consider this: more and more men are being clinically treated for mental disorders and depression than ever before. Over half of American women are prescribed antidepressants.

Carpe Diem

If you believe as I do—that men and women are different in more ways than just “their parts”—it’s pretty obvious to me that the feminist myth that men and women are the same has caused women to reject their natural femininity and become masculine. This has led men to become more feminine to try and ingratiate themselves in some attempt at equilibrium in this now socially synthetic environment.

There is no way to stop this social development; you’re better off getting your things and leaving for greener pastures. Men, I’m telling you from personal experience that there are still many many wonderful women out there that were raised in traditional gender roles that will be some of the best people you ever meet.

The only thing you have to do is break free of the Matrix, stop pedestalizing these monsters, and go see the rest of the non-Western world. But that’s an article for another time.

Carpe diem!

Fisto is one of the three main authors at Swoop the World. Check us out for articles on traveling, women, the red pill and game.

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  • Fisto!

    Fantastic Post My friend! I too have traveled around the world while i was a Sailor back in the day and the one thing i noticed about women here and women from other countries is that the women from other countries were more open, Feminine and not in your face all the time.

    They basically knew their roles in life. SO when i came back as a civilian and began meeting American women i could not tell you how so entitled these women have become! They want to be our equals but do not want to do the same type of work. They sleep around like crazy and they will stab each other in the back to access the same man. I know because i was in that situation a while back. My view of American women has become extremely jaded to a point that i never would take them seriously and when they began to trip and act crazy my ass would be out of there quickly!

    As western civilization continues to infiltrate other countries the women in those countries will begin to act the same way as American Women. It will be there demise as women learn the hard way when they old and gray and alone!

    I’m a married man who is married to a woman from the Dominican Republic and let me tell you these women will anything for their man. SHe got my back when the shit hits the fan and takes care of me without question. She brings me my coffee in the morning as well as my food to the table. She does all of those things!

    I remember when i we went to my parents house for dinner my brothers with their wives present were sitting on the table and once the food came i grabbed my plate and my wife quickly took it from my hand and said that she would serve me! She then started placing food on my plate while i spoke to my father. My younger brothers and their wives just stood there with their mouths open. She even got me a beer and opened it for me! All before she even served herself!

    My brothers after dinner whiel the women were away looked at me and told asked me how did i get her to do that for me. I told them i dont have to tell her anything because she knows what she needs to do. I take care of her and she takes care of me! That is what marriage is all about working together!

    Unfortunately these so called modern women do not understand that. They view marriage as something they can keep like a handbag and when its out of style it gets thrown in the closet and forgotten about. Its the same with how they view marriage once they grow tired of you you get thrown in the closet and forgotten about.

    So gentlemen listen to FIsto because as a man who has traveled to many places in the world Fisto knows what he talking about!

    Great Post Fisto!

  • John

    Fisto; you hit the nail on the head. I first visited Kiev, Ukraine in the fall of 2004, during the “Orange Revolution”. I was amazed at the difference in the grace, beauty, charm, intelligence and strength of Ukrainian women. Simply put; American men are duped and short-changed in thinking American women represent the norm of the world’s women. Women from Russia, Ukraine and other FSU/CIS countries all exhibit a degree of femininity and pride of appearance that has long since been lost on the vast majority of Western women. The FSU girls are well-educated, politically aware, love to care for “home and hearth” and please a good, decent man. They have little desire to have a career but, rather, see the importance of caring for the home, children and allowing the man to be the bread winner. Slavic women are not at all weak or timid. Theirs is a sincere desire to be REAL WOMEN and if required, they can also be as tough as a junk-yard dog. A typical Ukrainian girl will chew-up and spit-out an American woman without so much as breaking a nail and then, put their efforts to being what they believe is most important, a WOMAN! These girls are very aware that being fit, attractive and stylish is what men want and so, they do all these things above and beyond anything similar in the western world! Since I was first in Kiev, I haven’t been able to stay away from Ukraine. I’ve been all over the country and have found the women to be irresistible! I stopped dating American women in 2010 completely as I realize I’d rather spend my time alone or with a few guy friends here and travel to Ukraine a few times each year. Hopefully, I’ll marry one of the girls in Kiev or Odessa I’ve been seeing the past couple years and bring her to the US. I’ve already been told by numerous Slavic women that they believe American women are fat, slovenly and stupid. They cannot understand American women’s’ support of the anti-family feminist agenda. Ukrainian girls understand that by using their intelligence, they can have pretty much anything they want from men without the need to compete and continually blame men for anything in their lives not to their liking. My biggest complaint about American women is their bad attitude. Rarely do I encounter an American woman who seems happy and smiles a lot. I think this is because they are conflicted internally, having been mis-advised by the likes of Gloria Steinem and Helen Gurley Brown that “you (American women) can have it all!” NO ONE can have it all! Life is full of choices and compromises and strong values allow the family to be prioritized. I have 5 daughters and a son, consequently, I’m a huge supporter of women’s right (all people’s actually) to equal opportunity but, there are certain differences between the genders that will never allow them to be the same, PERIOD! By the way, it’s not a coincidence that the rate of American men marrying Eastern European women is increasing each and every year; American men are sick and tired of being sick and tired of American women!

  • Nice article. There’s a social dynamic involved here. That of getting someone to invest in you. American women refuse to do anything for their man, as a result, American men cannot easily get a woman to feel invested in them. Meanwhile, men are constantly throwing gifts, dinners, complements, drinks, etc… womens way, and as a result, feeling heavily invested in their woman.

    The appeasement has to stop, and American women have to realize that the men they get are a direct reflection of how much they invest in them. It might literally take a generation of almost no marriages to correct this absurdity.

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  • Shenpen

    I have never met an American woman, but I know British women, and while those around 40 or 50 kept a lot of decency, I just could not stand the average fat yet revealingly dressed, cursing, yelling, fighting, punching, glassing, piss drunk, fall-of-the-high-heels-and-walk-home-barefoot-in-the-winter drunk, eye-rolling, uneducated, unread, conversational skills stuck at eary teenagerhood kind of 20-25 year olds in Britain when I lived in Birmingham. I never dated them. I could hardly bring myself to talk to them or even go do the music pubs they go to. It was an incredible turn-off type of experience. I stuck to my folks, the Hungarians, plus there were a lot of Polish girls in Birmingham as well, they were cool.

    Are American women similar?

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  • I’m glad you gentlemen agree with what I wrote even though it’s something I’m sure we all wish was different. The good news is that we can simply say “peace” and leave. I’m headed to meet my compatriots at SwoopTheWorld.com in a week in the Dominican Republic to collaborate on a project. It will be like a breath of fresh air!

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  • Weygantt Kurt

    What have women gained from feminism ? OK they have a career, they earn their own money but at the end of the day they end up alone. Because feminism is not what women need. Women need to be appreciated for what they are, women and mothers. Those man hating lesbian feminists from the past have really ruined it for women nowadays. Sure they have a career sure they earn their own buck but have no time for motherhood and being just a woman and end up permanently unsatisfied and depressed… They blame us men for it, and for some part we men are to blame because we didn’t stand our ground and didn’t defend what manhood is about. Being a man is being the hunter, the protector and when war calls the warrior while our women take care of our children and our wounds when hurt in battle and cook what we brought from hunting (work nowadays)… Men and women are different yet they are both has important and equal in value in their particular role. Having a woman take care of his family the way she should makes a man feel a ease and confident that he can go about his business, and that his bringing the food to the table… There’s a reason why we men make more testosteron has sexual hormone and women make more estrogen. That’s nature and it’s scientific. Sometimes we humans should stop trying to change nature and just accept how things are. We would be happier … P.S. I’m from Belgium. It slowly becoming the same sh.t over here…

  • Taisa Lopes

    Fat spic tears run down my face. All I want is the white prince that I’ve been dreaming of my whole life. WHY WON’T ANYONE SEE MY INNER BEAUTY???!!!1

    [CensorBot sez: If you hate white people so much, why do you live in Philadelphia? Scoot your fat beaner ass back to Mexico, chica.]

  • Austin

    In the rural South, there are still a lot of girls who’ve never bought into feminism, or at least only in small doses. Sure, you may have to learn to like hunting and mudding, and you may have to become a Baptist, but they can fry a chicken from scratch and sew a button. There’s actually a lot of industrialization and growth in the cities, so it’s pretty easy to get a job there and meet a country girl.

  • Ao393

    Yes, my friend, very similar.

  • ssohara

    I hate to say it, because you sound like a misogynistic creep BUT you are actually just being honest. I don’t 100% agree with you, but you make some valid points. I actually have a Master’s Degree (in engineering) and I’ve known ladies from Russia who have PhDs, etc., but they were still feminine. One thing I don’t like about modern American culture – where is the loyalty to your husband and family? Whatever happened to basic courtesy and good manners? I love being treated like a lady but that means I have to act like one.
    And let’s face it – women are physically weaker than men, but fortunately for us, most men LIKE women. I also agree with you on the importance of having spaces where men can get together WITHOUT women. One thing I’ve noticed with an American friend – whenever we get together with her and her husband, when the guys start really getting into a conversation, she has to inject herself into it. Why not listen once in a while? Why does it always have to be about you? I am not the prettiest girl in the world, but I’ve got a really good husband, and I think part of the reason for this is – I don’t always have to be the center of attention. I listen to him and I try to make him feel good. When he feels confident and happy, he makes me happy. It’s a win/win. And it’s really simple and easy. With my girl friend who can’t sit quietly when the guys are really getting into a conversation – I’ve started distracting her and leading her to a different room. That let’s my husband have some time with his guy friend without the interruption, and my friend is happy because I let her be the center of attention. Everyone is happy, including me, because I’m taking care of people I love.
    Another thing I don’t like about feminism – it screws up the level playing field in academics, etc. As a smart woman, I probably did have it harder then men in some ways, but I also had it easier in others. In my experience, sometimes when you were better at something than men, some men would get resentful and mean, but other men would really respect you and go out of their way to help you. So it balances out.
    At any rate, I didn’t want special treatment or favors – if I couldn’t make it on my own, then I didn’t deserve it. I actually like fixing things and building things but a lot of women don’t, but they still want to get the same acknowledgment as men who are more skilled. Sorry, that’s not fair. It’s great that women have more opportunities but the reality is that most women are not going to become NASA engineers or neuro-surgeons. And for most women, being a stay-at-home mom, or working part time to supplement the family income but being able to raise the kids for the most part – that’s a lot more fulfilling than working as a secretary or whatever.

  • ssohara

    BTW, another thing I’ve noticed – sometimes women have to “prove” they are smart. Let’s say someone in the group says something stupid. Do you embarrass him by correcting him? If it’s really important, then yes, but very few things are important enough to embarrass someone. Instead of thinking with your ego, keep your mouth shut. You don’t have to let the whole world know how smart you are. It’s OK to keep quiet sometimes. Men do this crap sometimes too, but men are driven by their ego. The real strength for us women is that while we are physically weaker, we are not nearly as driven by our egos. We can use that to build bridges and help group harmony, which is where I think our real power lies. Just my two cents worth.

  • farkennel

    I take EXTREME offense with you calling the women from my country(Australia) land whales who are comparable to American women in their fattitude. Our women are by a long way FATTER than American women.And do not get me started on their sense of entitlement.Be grateful for American women because the blubber gutted pork monsters here make them look like perfectly reasonable unlazy facsimiles of the human female.

  • GetItGoing

    because you sound like a misogynistic creep” The rest of your comment was extremely reasonable and well thought out, so I’m surprised to see such a remark in there.

    More often than not men who make any statements that do not cater to the usual pedestilization of American women are instantly labeled as “creeps”, “misogynists”, and all the other go-to insults.

    I can say with certainty that it has become harder than ever to be a masculine man wishing to have a reasonably attractive, feminine, and loving woman in the United States. Hence, other options are out there…

  • GetItGoing

    I agree to a point. I’m from the south & a small town. The problem is that they get obese after they’re say 20-ish, and it all goes down hill from there. It is rare to see a “country girl” who’s in her late 20s to low 30s who isn’t fat. It’s depressing. Things used to be different.

  • ssohara

    Yeah, it was probably uncalled for. I don’t actually know you as a human being and so I shouldn’t insult you. I meant it more “tongue in cheek” or humorous than insulting, but it’s hard to get tone across on a keyboard vs. face to face.

  • GetItGoing

    Fair enough! It is so rare that someone is reasonable on hot-button topics like this that I almost fell out of my chair. LOL

  • scott razr

    I met my foriegn wife in church. She is my support system and I feel can accomplish just about anything with her saying, “I trust you, your judgement, and your plans for the future of our family.” Her values are traditional and I will bend over backwards to make her happy because she relies on me. We both love God and submit to Him before ourselves.

  • scott razr

    Yes, that was funny.Totally unkind, but funny.Still chuckling.

  • ashton

    seriously?
    I get what you are saying in the article, but some of these comments are just too much. I am an American female, and I will just say that growing up knowing that I can have a career for myself and not have to rely on a man to control my every move with finances has been one of the biggest motivations for me pushing forward academically and developing myself intellectually. I’d rather die alone than wind up like my mother or my grandmother. Kitchen slaves forced to put thier dreams to the side and worship the men who “owned” them like dogs. Afraid to show their sexual desires or their true nature out if fear of offending their men. Why are men so intimidated by females who want to be something other than a household mother? Why are men honestly so against women living their lives to the fullest and not giving a damn what anyone thinks? I sure as hell dont. I am going to one of the top universities in the nation, and am more accomplished than 99 percent of the men I know who are my age. Most of the men I know don’t know simple linear algebra, let alone how to invent something. Why do the women have to be submissive? Why can’t the men just adapt and as the women are more masculine, be more masculine themselves? Honestly I have been dating a turkish international student for 2 years now because he is the only driven male I have found who has the same drive for success as I do. All the rest of the American men I have come across are lazy, unmotivated, sore, assholes who threaten women they will wind up alone all day in order to control them. If women truly didn’t have any potential beyond the bounds of men, then the statistics showing the success of women’s equality in America and women dominating the work force due to that equality would mean nothing then? To you all, I say goodluck with the foreign women that cater more to your tastes. The submissive women who will pop out all of your babies and clean your houses and soak up all your money and sit silently like puppies every day silently suffering. I’ll be your boss that makes you my bitch and pisses you off because im making 5 times as much as your worker bee self ever will.
    Oh no, am I stepping too far out of my feminine nature for you? Too bad. If I gave a fuck about that I wouldn’t be where I am today.

    Some of you men should start taking notes. Because you’ll wind up broke and alone if you can’t step up to the plate like us American women have in the past decade.

  • AquariusMoon

    I love this and totally agree with you! : ) Never liked hanging around aggressive and ‘strong’ women either. They’re far too combative and unpleasant to interact with.

    You sound like a beautiful person : )

  • ssohara

    thank you! you are so sweet. :)

  • AquariusMoon

    Aww : ) Just glad to know that there’re still nice people around : ) Hope to have a nice chat with you around here soon! *waves*

  • Bercel KyBer

    I used to be one of those women until I met my husband. I love the way I can be vulnerable and feminine with him. What a relief!

  • AquariusMoon

    That sounds wonderful. I’m happy for you! : ) And being nice makes you even good, doesn’t it? :)

  • Bercel KyBer

    Yes, it does. When women tell me not to “be a slave” to my husband, I just smile and feel sorry for them. I gladly serve my husband because he is an Alpha provider who treats me like royalty. If he can slay corporate dragons without a single complaint and be my rock, he deserves to have dinner on the table and a smiling wife when he comes home.

  • AquariusMoon

    Absolutely! My partner takes wonderful care of me too. So after work, he gets to relax and have a good time : ) Happy to hear that you and hubby have a great relationship! : )

  • Good thing that TLC reality show “90 Day Fiance” is on.

    I am glad to see some American men and women finding happiness with someone outside this country. They, like myself, want to live better lives than if they were to share them with typical American people.

    I do not generalize all American and Westernized women. But, some of them are difficult, arrogant, indifferent, self-centered, controlling, and delusional. If I do choose to be with an American woman, she must have the same qualities I can easily find in a foreign woman.

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  • Pablo Escobar

    Stopped reading after you creep shamed the man.

  • Pablo Escobar

    Completely off topic

  • ssohara

    I went on to say that the guy made some valid points. It’s also true with some women – they can also make valid points even while sounding like jerks. And if you followed the conversation, I told the guy it was meant as tongue-in-cheek. I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and I am not PC. Since the guy himself and I are fine with each other, I really could care less if you don’t like it.

    BTW, you can block me if you are too sensitive to deal with that.

  • strappedcashman

    So you spent 8 years being brainwashed at a University to obtain a masters degree….. Have you produced anything useful with that degree since? Or do you just use it as a status trophy?

  • strappedcashman

    Just due to the simple fact that you started your comment with a typical feminist shaming tactic right out the gate, renders everything you said afterwards null and void as far as I’m concerned…. Never argue with a feminist, they will never hold themselves accountable for their own short comings, and when you back them into a corner with logic, they’ll lash out with irrelevant shaming tactics, and use whatever is within their reach to push your buttons, in order to induce an emotional response, and there by sabotaging your control over the dialog. It’s time to put the genie back in the bottle, start putting these feminist b****es in check.

  • strappedcashman

    American women are shit, they’re fat ugly slobs, and they’re getting worse with each passing day. I don’t even bother dating anymore, turned my back on these despicable whores years ago. I just focus on keeping my own house in order, and stay on the defensive whenever they are in my presence.

  • strappedcashman

    Southern girls used to be highly sought after decades ago, completely ruined now, so sad. This obesity epidemic is like genocide in slow motion, it’s tragic. But the real tragedy is that nobody seems to have any idea what to do about it.

  • strappedcashman

    Let me know how your independence is working out for you after you “A”. Hit the wall in your mid to late thirties, and your fertility, and attention from men starts slipping away. Or “B”. After riding the cock carousel, you eventually end up a single mother collecting welfare, and alimony because you cant be a bread winner, and “properly” care for bastard offspring at the same time. It’s going to go one way or the other for the likes of you, and at the end of the day, you’ll be f**ked either way.

  • ssohara

    so you spend your time online being an a**hole. I am sure that is a great use of your time.

    Did I attack you personally? I don’t think so.

    As far as whether or not I do anything useful with my degree or whether it is a status trophy… I think the fact that you define degrees as status trophies tells me everything I need to know about you. Namely, that you are the kind of materialistic, status conscious prick I usually do everything I can to avoid.

    I personally love learning. I retired when I was in my late 30s but I continue to read books on science, economics, etc. When I was working I designed a few things, filed a few patents… is that useful? Probably more so than what politicians do, probably less so than what a farmer does – in the grand scheme of things new gadgets are nice but everyone needs to eat and politicians are a necessary evil, IMHO.

    At any rate I’m going to block you. I have found I am a much happier person when I don’t deal with unpleasant people.

    And, FYI, I like men, in general. I have guy friends that have been my friends for decades – the reason that I have long lasting platonic friendships with men is that I value them as human beings, not as walking wallets. I enjoy their perspective and they seem to value my insights as well. I also have a husband that I’ve been with for 20 years. I had a good relationship with my Dad, who was married to my Mom until he died. I enjoy the men in my life but I avoid dysfunctional relationships. That means that I stay away from angry little boys.

    Now, if you actually had a logical, rational critique on what I had written, that might have been interesting and we could have had a discussion. But it seems that you became overemotional, irrational and resorted to personal insults. How pathetic is that?

  • ssohara

    Re. your point about my not being accountable, here is what I actually replied to the original poster: “Yeah, it was probably uncalled for. I don’t actually know you as a human being and so I shouldn’t insult you. I meant it more “tongue in cheek” or humorous than insulting, but it’s hard to get tone across on a keyboard vs. face to face.”

    So… does it sound like I don’t hold myself accountable? Also, the original poster understood I was using sarcastic humor – of course it takes a certain level of intelligence to grasp sarcasm, and while he seems to be an intelligent and reasonable person, you seem to be an angry, irrational little boy.

    For example, you state that feminists lash out, don’t use logic and use shaming tactics but in fact the only person doing these things is… YOU!
    Projection, much?

    Obviously you have been rejected by women who don’t want to deal with your garbage. Sucks to be you, I guess. What you probably don’t understand and probably never will is that life is unfair. Some people are naturally blessed by genetics, the rest of us have to work hard for what we want, and that’s not always fair, but that’s life.

    Women have it harder then men in some areas – for example, weight loss. It p*sses me off sometimes how much easier it is for men to lose weight vs. women, but hey, that’s life. Women in general need to work harder to maintain a nice figure, that is just the way it is. Similarly, there are areas where life is unfair for men. Too bad if you don’t like it.

    BTW, guess what, I don’t like you! And, I am sure you don’t like me either! So, I have a great idea – let’s avoid each other! I’ve already blocked you, you can block me as well.

    From a logical, rational POV, it makes great sense to avoid people you don’t like whenever possible.