Observations on Dating and Banging Girls in the Philippines

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I’m both enormously sick and hard at work trying to pull myself out of the huge pile of work I’m buried in, so here are some thoughts I’ve picked up on dating and smashing Filipino girls for the past month.

1. If you want to date Filipinas, you better be prepared to play a whole new set of games.

Yes, it is ludicrously easy to get laid here. Yes, in a good number of cases, all you need to do is show up and not be a weirdo to get the pussy. But Filipinas are far from stupid; they’re cunning and have their own share of stupid head games they play. It’s nowhere near as bad as the States, but like all women, Filipinas have an inner predator that they’re all too willing to unleash on idiotic men.

If you let them walk all over you, they will, so you need to go in prepared.

One big game that Filipinas love to play with men is the last minute meeting change-up. It goes like this: you’ll start texting her, she’ll agree to meet you at place X, but then an hour before you meet, she’ll suddenly text you asking to meet at place Y instead because it’s “closer.” This is despite the fact that she had no problem meeting you at place X the night before. I’ve had no less than six girls in the past month try and pull this on me and I’ve nexted every single one. This kind of game is an obvious power play: if you accede to her demands and change up your plans on her whim, she will be dictating the frame of the relationship.

For example, the first time a girl tried this on me, we had agreed to meet at a coffeeshop that was just up the street from my house in downtown Davao. Not an hour before our date, after I’d already arrived at the mall where the shop was, I get a text from her asking if we can meet at this other mall that happens to be closer to her house… a mall that is on the outskirts of town and would take me at least an hour-and-a-half to get to accounting for traffic. I politely told her no, then blocked her number from my phone. (I also later found out that she had hid the fact that she was a single mother from me.)

This game is probably the most insidious as the girl doesn’t start fucking with you until just before your date, but there are plenty of others you need to look out for as well. For example, if a Filipina starts whining at any point about her life (“I hate my job, I hate my classwork,” etc.), next her. Not only does this indicate that she has a low resilience for pain and struggle, it’s only a matter of time before she starts hitting you up for money. Honest Filipinas deal with their struggles with dignity and are too proud to ask for handouts from foreigners; I once tried to give my current girlfriend money for a taxi and she flatly refused.

To the outside observer, it might seem ridiculous that I’m advocating cutting off contact with Filipinas the minute they show dishonesty or attitude. “Real men figure out how to deal with these problems, not run away from them!” What you don’t get is that your value as a foreign man is so high in the Philippines that you will never lack for female company provided you put in a bare minimum of effort. For every girl who tries to force you into her frame or extort money out of you, there are three more who will treat you like a king.

There’s no reason to put up with shit from one girl where there are so many more willing to sleep with you.

2. If a Filipina can barely communicate in written English, next her.

English is one of the official languages of the Philippines, learning it is mandatory in schools, and the government favors it when it comes to written documentation. While few Filipinos are 100 percent fluent in English, you can hold conversations with them easily provided you tone down your use of slang and ten-dollar words. For example, as I found out the hard way, Filipinos don’t say “o” in place of “zero” in spoken English when it comes to long numbers (ex: if you read off “103” as “one oh three,” many Filipinos will have no clue what you’re talking about; you have to say “one zero three” or “one hundred and three”). While most of the girls I’ve known send typo-filled English texts, I can understand them easily, and we can have conversations where I display my wit and wisdom.

In a country where English is so widely used and learning it is mandatory, what does that say about girls who can barely write in it?

Answer: they’re dumb as rocks. They’re lazy. Attempting to woo them over a cup of coffee will be torturous because they won’t understand anything you say. I made the mistake of trying to date one girl who could only send illiterate one-syllable word texts, and most of our “date” consisted of me pantomiming with my arms hoping and praying something would penetrate her thick skull. She was pretty cute, but the language barrier was simply too big to cross.

This goes back to what I discussed in point one: given that most Filipinas speak passable English, why waste your time on one who can barely grunt out “I love you?” Filipino culture isn’t exactly intellectual to begin with; at times, it feels like this place got frozen in time somewhere around 1987. There’s no reason to make things hard on yourself by trying to screw a girl who isn’t smart enough to count to ten in a language she was required to study throughout school.

3. If a girl wants to bring one of her friends along on a date, let her.

This might sound like a game, but it’s not. Remember: as a foreign man in the Philippines, you are a rock star. Half the girls here dream of being married to a white guy, and when she tells her family she’s dating a foreigner, they practically high-five each other. When a girl wants to bring her friend along on a date, it’s a form of bragging: “Ha ha, look at the cool white guy I’m dating!” Having that friend along will make it way easier to seal the deal with your girl, because like all girls, Filipinas’ opinions are in part dictated by their social group. Make a good impression on the friend, you make an even better impression on your girl.

4. Creating a harem here is all but required due to the lax labor laws.

As you’d expect from a second-world country, the Philippines lacks many of the labor protections that Americans take for granted. When it comes to girls you date who have jobs (particularly teenage girls), most of them are working twelve hours a day, six days a week. This means you’ll only be able to see them a couple days a week at most. If you need companionship around the clock, you’ll have to make your peace with the idea of keeping multiple girls on rotation. If that makes you feel bad, just remind yourself that a good number of these girls are fucking around on you despite their protestations of chastity and fidelity. Why do you think the fertility rate is so high in this country?

5. Bring your own condoms.

I’m not kidding you. Not only are condoms here too small for the average white man (Filipinos being less endowed on average), wrapping it up is damn near required given the country’s laws. The Philippines is one of the few countries on Earth where abortion is illegal, thanks to the efforts of the Catholic Church, meaning a slip-up in the baby department means massive pain for you. While the Philippines and the U.S. don’t have a child support extradition agreement—meaning if you knock a girl up, you can get off the hook by fleeing the country—I’m not fond of the idea of leaving my child to be raised in a Southeast Asian ghetto.

6. If a Filipina wears bikinis, she’s a slut.

This one comes from my friend Larry. The Philippines still values female modesty and chastity (at least in public), meaning that revealing outfits are a no-no for Filipino girls. The ones who do wear them are girls who’ve spent some time outside the country and have absorbed some of the culture of wherever they went (read: they were riding the cock carousel until their labias turned blue). This is probably less true in the more liberal parts of the country, though.

Keep in mind that these are my observations and not a strict guide. I will likely post more detailed information on banging Filipino girls later, when I have more experiences to comment on.

Read Next: Brief Thoughts on Living in the Philippines

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  • Toads

    Matt,

    What camera do you use for your YouTube videos? Does it have a separate microphone extension?

    I am thinking of making some videos (on an unrelated subject), and found your video quality to be good in both resolution and sound.

    -Thx

  • Chance Boudreaux

    You forgot to mention. Your average filipina you meet on the street, will NOT come up and be forward with you. She will suddenly appear nearish you, smiling and looking friendly, but not speak to you unless you talk to her first. If a filipina DOES come up to you aggressively she is either: A)trying to sell you something B) a prostitute C) is a dude, or D) some combination of the above, like a she-male prostitute trying to sell you a butterfly knife.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    I use my computer’s webcam and an Audio Technica USB microphone.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    Very true. That said, I distrust any woman in any country who comes to me of her accord. I’ve been burned by these hoes one too many times.

  • John Doe

    Can’t help but notice how much of your site is forked from danger and play. Is he your alter ego or something?

  • http://greyenlightenment.com/ greyenlightenment

    Filipino culture isn’t exactly intellectual to begin with

    neither is the rest of the world. America, especially around the West and East coasts, is a uniquely intellectual place.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    Mike is actually my uncle.

  • John Doe

    Funny how a guy can have such a hard stance on plagiarism but no problem stealing someone’s entire site design. You should meet Tucker Max. I’m sure you’d get along.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    I redesigned my site based on Mike’s critique of my old layout:

    http://www.dangerandplay.com/2014/07/02/sell-advertisements-or-sell-ebooks/

    Go back to the minor leagues, kid.

  • John Doe

    That only leaves the colour scheme, toolbar and sidebar design and the general feel of the site. Even the links are the same colour. Except the real reason Mike gets high consistent traffic is because his content is positive. The only reason anyone visits your site is hate.

  • John Doe

    Your greatest business achievement is telling men how to beat their girlfriends. How the hell does that feel? Think anyone died because of that article?

  • Toads

    He is Matt’s uncle, moron…

    Getting feedback from your uncle is hardly a crime…I suspect you don’t have an uncle who helps you in any way….

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    That was a joke. He asked a stupid question, he got a stupid answer.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    Is this your way of saying you need a spanking? Sorry boy, I’m straight.

    Anyway, I don’t believe you actually read D&P. If you did, you wouldn’t be talking like a leftist SJW. Go back to Tumblr.

  • John Doe

    Some sharp readers you have there Forney. I’d tell him to kiss my ass but I’m scared of what might happen!

    And if its only leftists that hate you, why do Mike and Clarey preface every mention of your name with “I know a lot of you hate Matt Forney but…”?

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    I just looked at your comment history. All you ever do is make the same catty, “let’s you and him fight” kinds of remarks on every blog you go to.

    Better zip up your skirt, your vagina is showing.

  • Laguna Beach Fogey

    That’s fucking awesome…for dudes who like Filipinas. More importantly, have you checked out the surf spots? Does Charlie ,surf?

  • http://causalitysend.mee.nu/ Kristophr

    I was born in Oregon.

    The West Coast is not “intellectual”. Pretentious, yes.

  • GetItGoing

    Looks like some solid advice, thanks. Interesting that you said the opposite of the typical advice regarding a woman bringing a friend: In this case, welcome it. I take it that the Phillipines are an exception in that in this case, the friend won’t be a cock-blocker?

    But what about escalating and moving to a more personal space if the friend is around? Seems like that would be an issue.

    I have considered the Phillipines. I admit this article fuels my curiousity even more (in addition to what I’ve heard elsewhere).

    Thanks.

  • GetItGoing

    I’m from the southeast. Not a great deal of rocket scientists here, either.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    You’re not going to be able to escalate on the first date, friend or no friend. At least here in Davao, the culture is conservative and you need 2 or 3 dates minimum before sex.

  • elyhim

    Baler

  • JustUs4Awe

    You have the nerve to call women sluts as you brag about banging a rotation of girls in your harem? Any smart woman would see you and run.

  • 20Nation

    I’ve been following your trip a bit and it’s making me miss the Philippines. No other country like it to be honest

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  • Aya R

    Well this is beyond disgusting. Treating these women like animals.

    My mother’s from a lovely village that frowns upon scum like yourself and, I kid you not, you would get your dick chopped off if you were found to be sleeping round when you’re supposed to be with one woman.

    Also, this whole “white worshipping” is a load of shit but does work on the truly brainless and desperate women.

  • joe

    Why are you so scared of sluts? Jesus. Did you have some kind of emotional falling out as a middle schooler or what b/c it looks like your self image depends on how much ass you get. God bless the girl who actually ends up with your sexist ass.

  • joe

    LOL MATT FORNEY PULLS OUT THE ZINGERS

  • JP

    Firstly, I am Filipina.
    But whether I like it or not, you’re perspective is dead on. Brutal to the point of rudeness nevertheless you’ve hit the nail square on the head.
    There are exceptions of course but just like any exceptions they are the minority.
    It’s been a source of embarrassment to me that when western men hear the word ‘Filipina’, it is synonymous to easy sex. I mean Google Filipina and the first page would be all about dating sites or hookups (images are no better with scantily clad women trying to look very alluring).
    Can’t blame the guys…the opinions aren’t easy to digest but it is the truth.

  • Timoteo4 .

    I’ve noticed the thing about bikinis online. In a great number of women’s profiles, they have pics of them at the beach wearing cut-off jeans and a t-shirt in the water. With a bikini top on UNDER the t-shirt. While you see others that are in bikinis making suggestive poses. They go extreme in one direction or the other.

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  • tropicalhotdognight

    You’re a violent and disgusting pig, fantasizing about mutilating violence simply because a man has sex with different women. How many people do you know who sleep with only one member of the opposite sex? Do you want to cut out the genitals of all the others?

    You’re also too stupid to notice that Matt actually likes and respects Filipina women a lot more than he does his female white compatriots.

  • Aya R

    Fantasizing? No, that is literally what happened to a man in my mum’s village for cheating on his wife.

    And I think you are the moron in this conversation. Please read the title again and tell me if that is respectful to Filipina women. Then read section 4 about keeping a harem for extra effect.

  • tropicalhotdognight

    So it’s cool because it really happened. Do you support the same punishment for women cheating on their husbands?

    Wanting to have sex with someone does not necessarily entail disrespect, even if one does not want to have a monogamous relationship with them. And once again if you read more of Matt’s writing’s on his trip to the Phillipines, it would be abundantly obvious that he likes the place, its culture and its women.

  • snbatman

    Just because a truth is uncomfortable doesn’t make it less true.

  • MJ

    “I am not an angel,’ I asserted; ‘and I will not be one till I die: I will be myself. Mr. Rochester, you must neither expect nor exact anything celestial of me – for you will not get it, any more than I shall get it of you: which I do not at all anticipate.” Charlotte Bronte, Jane Eyre

  • ExecutiveK

    As a Filipina, I find this article disgusting. Any non Asian who comes and read this this filth would instantly think the Philippines breed hoes. They don’t. You make them out that way by writing this type of garbage.

    Then again, I’m guessing that’s why you came to the Philippines – to be one with your kind. In short, you’re disgusting.

    I wouldn’t touch you even if you are the last pig on earth.

  • Aya R

    Now did I say it was “cool” or is someone putting words in my mouth? I don’t agree with it but laws in the Philippines are a lot different than the western countries and people can get away with things such as that.

    I never said sex was disrespectful either, however, what is the likelihood that these women are cool with a man sleeping with several other women at the same time they’re seeing each other? I know I would go ape shit if I found out my boyfriend was sleeping with someone whilst I was busy working. If you truly knew the culture of the Philippines you would know that the majority of the population are Roman Catholic and women there want monogamous relationships.

    If you try saying that they don’t then next time I am off to see my family over there I will take a video cam and ask the women in public what they really think of an article like this. I know my mother is disgusted but she confirms it’s the easy and gold digging women who would be happy with pigs that treat women like that.

  • slimmy jimmy

    “like a she-male prostitute trying to sell you a butterfly knife” – Best line ever

  • sameer

    nice article,but i dont think so philippines is that sort of sex heaven like white nations are, i mean i am neither tall nor that good looking just average 20 year old brown indian dude,still i managed to banged almost half of europe,i have been with lithuanian,russian,french,swede,romanian,danish,belgian,etc etc , i guess white girls are the biggest sluts here, they tend to sleep with anyone even africans anyways what i m trying to say is filipinas are far better than these whites, i don’t know which type of girls u have been with(probably hoes) but filipinas are much better my current gf is filipina and she is the most loyal,caring,educated girl i have ever been with

  • TyDaMan

    Don’t listen to this borderline sociopath.

  • Zen Castro

    Aya R, great comment! I salute your viewpoint….

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  • akshay

    zen u are so hot i will kiss u lips and suck

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  • Blu Soulstn

    I noticed you said “my mother” was from the village but not you right…your westernized and free to spew obscenities at will. yeah the article wasn’t talking about you it was talking about Filipinas.

  • Christine

    This article is extremely insulting and disgusting and i’m sure it reflects your personality as well. The only way scum like you could ever get any woman in the Philippines is if she was a gold digger or a slut. But since you enjoy wasting time by writing shit articles like this that aren’t even true to begin with you obviously have no money so you must have been banging straight up sluts. I feel sorry for people like you that need to go to a different country to fuck girls that pretend to like you; I guess the sluts in America know better than to fuck a repulsive dirty cunt licker like yourself.

  • Aya R

    What is your argument exactly?

  • Faye R

    Observations on dating and banging foreign dudes in the Philippines:

    1. Girls: we need to be way more discerning with whom we shag and/or date, if even someone like Matt Forney finds it easy.

    2. Girls who don’t speak very good English: be thankful for the language barrier – at least you don’t have to sit through every dullard white boy carry on about how fascinating he is. Believe me, it will make you want to gouge your eardrums out with a cocktail umbrella.

    3. Do no bring your friends along to your dates unless you want to be mocked for sleeping with some pasty-skinned, doughy bald guy who had to move halfway around the world to get laid because the girls in his country won’t touch him with their worst enemy’s vagina.

    4. If you’re seeing a grown man who needs the companionship of a teenage girl around the clock so bad that he needs to build a harem, run for your life. Flee the clutches of the pathetic white dude with sick Lolita fantasies and serious mommy issues like the very hounds of hell were at your heels.

    5. Let’s not be angered by the observations of the likes of Matt Forney. Matt Forney had found out from a very early age that he is an extremely unlikeable person. Being well aware of this, and having to
    make a living off click-throughs and web traffic, the only tack left to him, obviously, is to be hateful and inflammatory. And this is exactly what he does. He takes the contempt he’s had to put up with all his life and tries to make money off of it. And I’m pretty sure that’s not going too well for him either.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    According to your IP address, you live in the U.K.

    U mad sis?

  • The True Frank

    You’re just plain disrespectful, man. Filipino women are some of the smartest, prettiest, classiest, and most sophisticated people I know. Your article gives me the impression that you have no experience whatsoever of the women I’m talking about, and I pity you for that. You have a talent for writing, I’ll give you that. But the fact that you’re using your skills to create pieces of shit like this article: wow, I think you have to reevaluate your life, man. You and your fairy boys have to assert your masculinity every so often, but you’re doing so through the internet. Grow a pair. Real men respect women. You’re passing off as some whiny loser who’s pathetic enough to make shitty rants about something he clearly can’t live without.

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    Why are you slut-shaming Filipinas, you racist misogynistic shitlord?

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    At least you live in the Philippines (according to your IP address). You should be thankful you do, even white knighting losers like you can get laid there.

  • Faye R

    …er, somehow I fail to see your point.
    Have we gone back to the age before cartography and overseas travel?
    U thinking straight, pare?

  • http://mattforney.com/ Matthew Forney

    When was the last time you got laid, sweetie? Be honest.

  • The True Frank

    I’m flattered, you bothered to look at my IP address :3 I’ve got myself a classy girl, thank you very much–the kind who’s way out of your league. And I got her by being a white knighting loser. Anybody can get laid anywhere, sure. You speak of it as if it’s a great achievement, like you’re a teenage boy amazed at his erection. The real deal is about how you treat women. You don’t have to be all gentlemanly, baldude, but you’ve got to stop creating shit articles like this one. You earn nothing by it, except the approval of your borderline-homo group of fairy boys.

  • Larry Dickman

    A woman who sleeps around is a slut.
    A man who sleeps around is a stud.
    Hope that’s cleared up.

  • geoff_lucky

    Men need sex. Its physiological. Trying to guilt trip men about sex is like a man guilt triping you because you have your period. Its sexist.

  • William Johnson

    Have you tried Thailand? I was there for 5 months last winter and now I don’t even look at women in my home country (Canada). Western women have been ruined by feminism. Most of them are bitches.

  • Aya R

    I’d like to know what you’re trying to get at. My issue with the article is that it is trying to teach men to sleep around with countless women from one particular country, disregarding that these women are probably not comfortable with sleeping with a man who’s banging several women during the week.

    As an example, I have a completely healthy sex life with ONE MAN. Pretty sure most Filipina’s would like one man to be faithful to them in the duration of their relationship.

  • Christine Padinit

    What the hell!! Still not all Filipinos are same individuals. Just like every races. Whoever wrote that article who has experienced culture and women’s in the Philippines is a dick and hypocrite.. A stud and a moron!!!!!

  • Driver

    I think you can get your point across without the “dick chopping off” reference.

    I see this shit more and more, every day. Have we sunk to such a low level where adults can’t have simple conversations or debates without going over the top?

  • Driver

    and you don’t see anything wrong with the “dick chopping off” reference?

    What happened to people disagreeing on points or having a debate (minus the violence)? I’ve seen more and more of this shit…usually from the group who claims to be more understanding, fair or diverse.

    Let’s get back to discussions without the over the top shit, ok.

  • Driver

    You’re not being “genuine” in your response. I’m not buying it.

    The language typically spoken (if not English) is Tagalog (not “Filipino”).

  • matthew

    Bloody oath mate some people get so butt hurt peoples opinions

  • matthew

    Jim Jeffries sums it up perfectly.
    Its fucking easy to be a slut, Its fucking hard to be a stud.

  • Aya R

    Nothing more effective for emphasis than an OTT real life example!

    It’s the internet. Where “simple conversations” just don’t exist and where articles made for sad men can thrive.

  • Aya R

    Just to clarify, Filipino is the formal name of Tagalog. It’s because certain parts of the Philippines speak other languages that are exclusive to the Philippines but are still classed as “Filipino” (such as ‘Ilokano’ which I hear more of when I visit).

    Not only that but if you’ve ever seen a school text book over there then you’ll know they learn “Filipino” in school not “Tagalog”. Therefore ‘Alexa’ is most likely genuine.

  • Driver

    Good excuse. Thanks for stopping by and never mind.

  • Driver

    Sure (I’m not buying it). I’ve had too many people (who were actually born and raised in the Philippines) tell me otherwise.

  • Aya R

    Well that sounds believable…

    Just admit it, you didn’t know there were other dialects man.

  • Driver

    I did know and I looked it up before responding. I live with many different people (east coast near navy base) so I’ve come in contact with many different type of people, cultures, language, etc…I just didn’t find the comment “genuine” because of the many people that I know don’t refer to that dialect in the “official” name.

  • Driver

    and next time you want my attention, sweetie…just ask for it (don’t play coy with me).

  • Brucewayne

    You aren’t exactly spot on, but closer than most people who write about the Philippines here.
    I am married to a Filipina and have been for 9 years.
    From what I have seen, i am lucky, they all seem to cheat on theirhusbands sometime in their relationship, but at least mine waited and asked me.
    By the time she did, i didn’t care anymore because of all of her harping all of the time and now things are quiet again.
    i told her if he had a bigger dick than mine, go for it.
    We have a 7 year old daughter and the wife will not jeopardize losing her because I am the one the girl is attached to since i am the Mother and Father to her all of the time.

  • Brucewayne

    If they want monogamous relationships, why do so many of them screw around on their men?

  • Brucewayne

    Filipinas always go over the top.

  • Brucewayne

    No, a man is a slut puppy or a whore monger, not a stud.
    A stud is a desirable man.

  • Ann

    I don’t know if this is so something satirical or what not. But this is actually funny. I am a Filipina and yeah maybe some of these things are true yet harsh buuuut this is just plainly taken from a single point of view.. Hell i care about other’s affirmation, it’s not like they’ve come from a very holy place as well

  • Ann

    Hahhaha! Right on the head! Hahaha Totally ironic, right? Haha

  • Ann

    Yep mister driver, it’s Filipino. Take it from me, born and raised in Philippines. i was once a Filipino subject teacher as well

  • Ann

    Hahaha that’s why i find this so funny. It’s so full of figurative expressions in an idiotic way.! Hahaha

  • Glass Beach

    I lived in Makati City Phils from 2004-2006 and my experience are very much as Matt Forney describes. Getting laid there is so easy that it becomes boring (did I just say that?). My experiences with Pinay put me on a steep learning curve with S-E Asian women. On leaving Phils I lived in Thailand for the next 7 years, enjoying the challenging language barrier, amazing food, Buddhist calm and far more honorable womenfolk (yes, get away from the bars and tourist areas and you’ll find an incredibly conservative culture).

    And to those Pinay wishing to attack me here, my 23 year old apprentice at work got laid last night by a Pinay here in the UK. He went to a shared house to view the room she is vacating next week when she returns to Phils after finishing Uni here. He’s still in shock!

  • Guest

    While I agree on the english comments, I don’t agree with a lot of your points. I think since you were in davao it’s different than luzon as a whole or cebu,bacolod,etc; wearing a swimsuit is common, that doesnt make women sluts there,regular sized condoms are sold everywhere, and the plan b pill is called nordette which you get at the drug store. i been to pi 5 times, im 29. to be honest youre smashing these mainly uneducated provincial women. equivelant to banging women from west virginia and then making an assumption on all american women. go to manila, specifically the fort, bgc, makati; the women are cool,normal,educated,cultured and not from the sticks. also, being white in the pines is equivelent to beinga black dude at a all white college bar, girls want you because your different and because the pines is one of the least visited countries in sea, its the truth, people like different colors who cares

  • bill

    While I agree on the english comments, I don’t agree with a lot of your points. I think since you were in davao it’s different than luzon as a whole or cebu,bacolod,etc; wearing a swimsuit is common, that doesnt make women sluts there,regular sized condoms are sold everywhere, and the plan b pill is called nordette which you get at the drug store. i been to pi 5 times, im 29. to be honest youre smashing these mainly uneducated provincial women. equivelant to banging women from west virginia and then making an assumption on all american women. go to manila, specifically the fort, bgc, makati; the women are cool,normal,educated,cultured and not from the sticks. also, being white in the pines is equivelent to beinga black dude at a all white college bar, girls want you because your different and because the pines is one of the least visited countries in sea, its the truth, people like different colors who cares.

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  • Kyle

    I have been to the Philippines many times and I will agree with this article 100%. Women there love American D while I am there I usually sleep with 2 different girls everyday. Sometimes 2 at once they can’t get enough as long as your not a jack butt it so easy Aye is just mad its not her getting D down.

  • Tim E

    ok so your advice then is to not have any sharp objects in the apartment? Also, probably not falling asleep would be a good idea, just send her home after you’re done banging her.

  • Tim E

    Nice to see other people getting the Jim Jeffries reference :)

  • Tim E

    Wait so is it actually harder for you to get laid in Philippines? Idk man, never been there, but people report some crazy numbers, they certainly don’t say the same about Europe.

  • matthew

    He has a brilliant mind haha

  • Alex K

    Clearly some one has problems with logics, common sense and English comprehension!
    As a Christian, but certainly a sinner, I will say to you “don’t judge and you shall not be judged”. Be they women or men each one makes his or her own decisions about what and with whom they will do things. Your simple Assumptions about “those” women who may have different view of life (regarding sex) or higher sexual libido than your’s are simply dumb in itself and very narrow minded. As you were…

  • Alex K

    I see some >>> …. people here get upset about it and take it personal. I suggest everyone to take courtesy not to generalise too much but also accept facts and people’s experiences.

    I must say from experience even when I use an online dating site to meet friends or potentially a “special one” I never stopped being hustled by and attract way more women from SE Asia. I take it as a complement and its not always about money. So of course the chance of SEX is way greater for someone like me ion the SE Asia.

    It’s all about mutual respect and respect of the person you are with at the time. Fuck if you want to fuck. And Love if you found Love and don’t fuck around!

    Kind regards

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  • Aya R

    Clearly someone wanted to sound intelligent but that backfired atrociously…

    Oh and your assumption of my libido couldn’t be more wrong.

  • David O.

    I totally agree with you, women all over the world want the same thing, to be loved and respected. If you sleep around with many women you are many things but certainly not showing them respect! I have only good things to say about filipina girls, they are sweet caring and very loyal. And they have what many western women have lost, that feminin sweetness that make a man happy he is a man. ;-)

  • Aya R

    Thank you kuya, God bless!

  • Aya R

    In your dreams.

  • Dennis Khan

    I would personally be very satisfied with a lady much like your self actually and actually do see both your original points of view from the start to begin with ,
    I myself however as modest as it sounds even if maybe such moments were to present themselves couldn’t simply bare the guilt of such which at the end of the day would initially just absorb me and ruin my day ,
    For me it just really boils down to common sense take from this topic what you may as I would be more drawn by the fact that most Filipino ladies can actually speak and understand English very well as I have met ( conversed with ) a couple of ladies here in my own country through work whom I never would have picked to have been Filipino whom I thought were very easy to talk to respectful as well as attractive ,
    I don’t mean to sound sexually racist or discriminative in a sense as I have had multiple opportunities in the past where I could have just dove on in and had this part of my life done dusted and sorted but don’t really seem to feel any real connection yet alone attraction to the ladies here which more than likely seems to be more the norm here whom to me seem to be more in sync with an easy going drinking sporting like culture locally
    Which there’s nothing wrong with but really isn’t my cup of tea , I’ve always thought Asian ladies to be more exotic looking younger looking and just basically in general more attractive and from what I’ve noticed seem to be more consistent at maintaining this physic even after child birth by basically in general maintaining a healthy diet unlike over here where a lot seem to just waste themselves away which I feel would play a part in there partners potentially looking at other options

  • Aya R

    I respect your opinion and preference; this is by far the most honourable response I have read and I thoroughly appreciate it.

    Women deserve respect and not to be treated like pieces of meat. There is no issue for a man to take a liking to a certain race but when someone takes advantage of the traits, that women of a particular culture possesses, it is hard not to be repulsed and offended.

    Once again, I’m glad to finally see an intelligent reply.

  • Aya R

    What sort of evidence do you have to back your “so many of them” statement? Just because some dirty men have slept with a few promiscuous women doesn’t mean the whole country is like that.

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  • Driver

    You’re not the first female to play that role (to gain attention from men).

    It’s not a problem, I’m ok with it. Go with it…don’t try to down play it (to appear “strong and independent” for the rest of the women).

  • Alex K

    Fairly balanced comment in my opinion. I think the main article contained many thruths mixed with some disrespectful and negligent view of Filipina girls. There is an explanation to that which people will bot quite understand unless they know how Western mind ticks. On one hand we have a man who disrespects women but on other hand we have men who are opposite of that and respect Filipinas and who mutually enjoy sexual encounters. We are not talking about money. Also, to give you an example if a down to earth, polite guy with decent physical appearance puts a profile on Filipino dating website he will get hundreds if interests and e-mails. This normally would not happen in home country and such situation seriously affects some men’s attitude towards Filipino women as they dis not have much respect to Filipino women.
    The article which we discuss could be written in a better way to avoid this aggression and the whole discussion would be purely pisitive. I’ve never been to Phil but have a wonderful fenale friend there who raised the bar of respect for the women there.

  • Guest

    Well for a change something seems to be clear to you. However no! Someone was intelligent and not “wanted” to be one. You seem to act like you are right and your opinion is the main opinion in this diacussion. Your style of communication is more rude and sexist than if you were simply swearing and used labels. You might as well do that because the level of aggression you exert towards Others is like of an angry dog barking at anything that moves past its fence. May be its time to shut up with that angry barking and instead go and get laid with your boy friend(?) rather than preaching about who should sleep with who.
    Your entire rhetoric about sex is exactly the same as of some extremist religious sects or far right wing which tells homosexuals they can’t do what they want to do in their own beds.
    And finally, girl I think you’ve convinced most “experienced” men that you do have libido issues or you simply not getting enough. And this not an assumption but a straight forward observation of a good old cop. As you’d rather be a nun and had no wealth of sexual education and experience, someone like could not possible have a slight comparison or idea of what high libido is. Literally stop barking and join the peripheral die hard feminists forum to help with your angry verbal diarrhoea. Mind your own business before someone comes to your bedroom and puts a cloth over your head and imposes their extreme views of where your place should be.
    Despite everyone telling you to stop casting you judgements and mind your own bisiness your skull is too thick to get any point other than yours. Hopeless case you are.

  • Alex K

    I am sorry to five you the bad news and a bit of a culture shock Indian bloke. Nothing agains Indians. But you have been used by them because they are young, playful and horny and used you and threw out like an old bone and moved on. Where as you thought you did something exceptional. European girls are same as guys, what do they do they travel and fuck. Excuse my High English.

  • Alex K

    Mate what tou said about your gf I could say about some European girls. having slept with a few girls in your travels one could say you were whoring yourself and either lying or unlucky not to meet family oriented girls in Europe.
    I have respect for most Filos, but you know it is strange when in 3 days on the dating site for the purpose to meet 1 girl I got over 100emails and more than that interests. To each one of those girls i amgrateful, but such situation corrupts White tourists. However amongs those contacts that girls tried to make with me it discusses me when they throw their cam shows or ask to borrow 50bucks. I personally hate that but smart enough not to generalise the rest.

  • Aya R

    Basically read my reply to Dennis Khan below and then you would understand what sort of opinion I appreciate. Cannot be bothered to reply to such a nonsensical response.

    And once again, as far as my libido is concerned, I am actually getting a lot more than most in relationships seeing as most nights I am with him we have sex. I’m pretty happy it’s with one man too but I’ve had some crazy experiences at Uni when I was single.

  • Aya R

    Hmmm, I think someone’s confused.

    Don’t act like you know me just by my internet persona. If I wanted attention from a man I could very well go outside and get it but I’m happy in my relationship to do that.

  • Driver

    of course.

  • Aya R

    And I’m sorry you have to read an article to help you get laid. Good luck in life.

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  • Brucewayne

    Evidence is all around us, so many divorces because the wife is caught cheating and wives carrying babies for other men.
    I personally have seen nearly a dozen such cases in the last 9 years I have lived in Cebu and have heard of many more.

  • Aya R

    Well immediately I can see something wrong; Philippines is predominantly Catholic, they do not believe in divorce.

    And a dozen cases in 9 years? Mate, that’s nothing, I’m British and the West is the worst for cheating and babies from other men.

    Of course you’re going to get people who don’t stay faithful whatever country they’re from so that’s not what you call evidence.

  • Brucewayne

    Most Catholics here seem to believe in divorce, but the Philippine churches don’t.
    A dozen cases of the men going home and filing divorce out of what, maybe 25-30 foreigners I have actually known here isn’t nothing as you say.
    Also, what do you mean by “evidence”, I mean is this a court room?

  • Brucewayne

    Also, a lot of those who can’t get a divorce end up mysteriously widowed if they want the husband out of the picture, so what you are implying is that divorce isn’t acceptable to these Catholics, but murder is?

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  • Ket A

    Bravo Aya R, men’s comments here are idiotic…just like the writer!!! I hope this writer will be kidnapped in the Philippines!

  • Ket A

    Just make sure you are not coming back to Mindanao…people there would like to behead you!!!

  • http://sheeen.weebly.com sheeen.weebly.com

    Ohh that is so sad. I can feel you though. In general most Filipina girls are like that, especially those from the province…. You can’t just met someone who can be equal or be able to compete with your mentality, Filipina’s has a different humor culture and they don’t get what sarcasms is, also it doesn’t mean someone who finished college can speak well in English. But I feel you, if I where I dude, I would probably be blogging this kind of list too. Have a nice day ;*

  • http://sheeen.weebly.com sheeen.weebly.com

    lol Agree though

  • Ket A

    there are 95M+ Filipinos in the world….do not generalize moron!!! surely the Filipinas would not want to stay with you because you have a small dick!

  • Mikko L.

    You retard. F*cking several different Filipinas is not respect, it’s using them as fuckbags. For the people who do this: get STIs and/ or AIDS.

  • Mikko L.

    People shouldn’t be f*cking around like low-levelled animals anyway. There’s a reason the ideal is to get married first.

  • Mikko L.

    Any woman with objective morals, ethics and values, especially regarding sexuality.

  • Mikko L.

    Men and women who fuck around are both sluts. And are highly susceptible to STIs and AIDS. XD

  • Sebastiano

    All women should be treated with respect. But I must say Philippino women are beautiful..:)

  • http://www.dakillahgenius.com Da Killah Genius

    I partially agree with all (and everybody’s opinion), i use to wonder why there were so many Filipino Women online looking for husband, this article basically told me why they were all acting so shady when they couldn’t get their way with me, I don’t think every woman is bad, but I look at this as a cautious article to teach people what to expect from these Filipino Women, i spoke to a Filipino woman over the phone, and she was telling me how theres no opportunity in the Philippines, and she was saying that “You don’t want to live here”, and how almost everybody you meet there is evil, my response to her was “people wise, its no different from america, people out here do evil things too,”, I can’t judge by looking and reading, but I can judge by interaction, and no offense “Aya R”, I’m highly attracted to Mexican Women and Asian Women, you gotta understand, this generation changed when your talking about people, government and their rules, the system everywhere got lazy, people these days are not raised with value, and just remember on every continent theres a ghetto, as a person writing blogs about’em……….

  • Rita

    I am a Filipina and I have a British fiancé. We’re internet friends since I was high school and when he decided to meet in person he went here in Philippines. After that we’re committed now.

    As my observation when he was here, there’s lots of women, even gay men flirting with him. Lots of women smiling to him. And there were a time when we went to a mall and I was in restroom,he said that a women asked him if he’s available and so persistent to have him and it always happen when i’m not around, but as always he rejected them.
    Then in his hotel someone want to get in on his room and he saw that it’s a women. I didn’t want to believe but it’s reality, that some Filipinas want foreign men for sex and money.
    But I think that in everywhere, especially in this modern times, these scenes are reality.
    It’s just depends on that person if he/she would be a part of it. If he really wants a serious relationship then he should know who are the right women to be dated by finding her in a right circumstances.
    There were lots of Filipinas who are mature, honest, caring, thoughtful, hard working and trustworthy out there that build up from a family-oriented culture and have good beliefs in God.
    And I agree that women MUST BE RESPECTED coz that’s a real man should do.
    We, Filipinas are not all like that, but we, women, should always be respected even she didn’t want to, coz that’s a real man should do.
    Philippines has high poverty that causes why there are Pinays want foreign men for money but if WE fall in love we submit all. We care and treat him how a man should love. When it comes to love, we are patient, caring, understanding, loyal and very lovable that’s why foreign men fall in love in a Filipino women that easy.
    In a world full of sin and temptations, we should be wise and have the eyes to see what’s the truth. If you want good you should also be good. If you settle for less then you’ll only have it. Go find a good Filipino women and respect her,accept her and love her and you’ll have the best of Pinays!

  • tropicalhotdognight

    You’re the retard, asshole. Not everyone is monogamous you stupid fuck.

  • http://www.dakillahgenius.com Da Killah Genius

    This is a sad article, I partially agree with everybody’s opinion including yours, when I was online, chilling and chatting, I ran across some shady & sneaky filipino women online, they either asked me for money, or they kutt me off because they didn’t get what they want (like a fast relationship or marriage), which is cool, because i’m a busy and I never make time to chase women, my response to the article, just like america and countries around the world, theres ghettos, sluts, whores, sneaky, shady, slimey/grimey people, and theres also good people, intelligent, smart, well focused, determined and hardworking. now i’m not defending anybody’s culture, i’m speaking in general. Just like how some blacks attack whites, and some whites attack blacks, you really can’t judge anybody’s culture, especially when it comes down to the females. YES, I’am extremely attracted to Asian Women and Mexican Women, but it doesn’t mean I’ll give’em money when I don’t even know them, I’m not crazy (desperate) to do favors for people. I have a filipino friend I met at my job, he is cool as hell, yeah, he was seeing & dating 3 different women at the same time, he didn’t get any SEX from them. The moral of the being is, nobody is perfect, if you accept the good in people, you have to accept the bad that comes with them (big or small). My advice to the blogger, just because you ran across bad women, don’t judge every woman and their whole culture…….

  • Mikko L.

    Hope you know what STIs and AIDS are, kid.

  • Simpleview123

    Excellent responses Aya. I find this boy Matt (I can in no way consider him a man) to be quite repulsive. He knows ;little of the Philippines or the culture. His comments and reasoning are so far off the mark from the reality of the culture. I never try to be judgmental or buy into stereotypes. However, some stereotypes such as the term ugly american come into existence for a reason. His attitude and behavior fits the bill for that stereotype. I hope he never sets foot in the Philippines again. If he does, I hope he would have the courage while clearing immigration to say… hello my name is Matt Forney, this is an article I’ve written/published about what I think of your country. Probably would not be well received. .

  • Simpleview123

    Matt… Your ignorance of the Philippines shines so bright in your writing.

  • Simpleview123

    @Debbie Your comments are so far off base and biased. The average Pinay is not going to be flirting with a westerner. There are some that will, but overall, no. There are just as many shameless women in the US as in the Philippines. (probably more) Fact is the US ranks very high in the sex trafficking arena. Well over 100,000 children alone every year forced into the sex trade. You must have been very sheltered and in one location for the most part during your stay in the Philippines. Before you just speak negative of a country in general, I suggest you look at your own. Also, many western men that visit the Philippines and some that live there are nothing less than degenerate pigs anyway. There might be a lot of bad people in the Philippines, there are a lot of good too.,Same applies to the US. Same applies all over the world.

  • Simpleview123

    You are correct, there are good and bad people everywhere in this world.. That so many focus on the bad is very sad, I did find the article to be a ;little to negative and the generalizations expressed to be way out of line. I’ve been involved with the Philippines and have considered it home for about 35 years now. I understand the culture well. The key factor is to understand the culture. Sadly most Americans judge other countries on there cultural values alone. Do not take into account cultural differences There are still many raised with traditional values there. The biggest change I have seen in the past 35 years is that the population has doubled. There are opportunities available in the Philippines, you just have to be creative and find your niche. There is money to be made.As for living there, I love it. The only way you will get a good understanding of the Philippines is to come and live there for a few years. Not just restrict yourself to the major cities and heavy tourist areas, but get out and live in the provinces. Explore the country.
    . .

  • Simpleview123

    You are correct. Most Pinay would prefer one honest and true man for life. Most guys that sleep around all the rime end up one way. Lonely in the end. Never experience true love. The sad thing is, I am sure they are deceitful at times and actually end up hurting a nice a trusting girl on occasion. I have seen it happen before. I have seen more than one case of date rape too. I do not consider these guys men though. In my eyes, they are merely little immature boys. Real men do not behave like that. . .

  • Simpleview123

    How is this over the top??? It has happened on more than one occasion at home. It is a fact based reality. .

  • Klokinator

    Lemme guess. Feminist?

  • Klokinator

    Based on your grammar, lemme make an educated guess. Feminist?

  • Klokinator

    Oh shit, that MLG callout though.

  • Aya R

    Tell me, do you see women as equal or below you? If your answer is the former then congrats, you yourself are a feminist. If it’s the latter then I don’t think you’ll ever find a woman that would truly respect you.

    Please understand the meaning of ‘feminisim’ before throwing it around as if it is a bad thing.

  • Klokinator

    Feminists: Fat women who are too lazy to keep themselves competitive in the sexual marketplace and who do anything possible to get a free lunch ticket.*

    *Not to be confused with actual feminists from the 1920’s who actually advanced the human race.

  • Aya R

    Funny that, I don’t think my boyfriend would agree with your definition!

    Maybe you should read an actual dictionary, this may help you become less ignorant. Do you need me to give you the definition of ignorant for you or can you manage that?

  • Klokinator

    Sure, it’s listed right here.

    Ignorant; Adjective. See: Aya R.

  • Aya R

    Great comeback. I’ve heard something similar from a 4 year old.

  • Simpleview123

    Wrong about the language issue Driver. In the Visayans region, Cebuano is the most common language spoken. Some from Luzon that speak Tagalog do not understand Cebuano. Many that speak Cebuano also speak Tagalog along with their local language. Many that speak Tagalog also have their own local language. So no, Tagalog is not typical everywhere. Your ignorance of the Philippines and the culture is very apparent and shines bright.. Filipino is used in many cases to refer to Tagalog. However there are over 124 other Filipino languages. I’ve been around the Philippines for about 35 years now so I know a little about the culture.

  • Klokinator

    Kids do tend to talk amongst themselves, yes. I’m sure you and your friend had a very interesting conversation about why the sky is blue and how to rub crayon on paper the correct way.

  • Driver

    Ok..wrong on the language. Anything else of value to add here or was that it?

  • Raghu Nandan

    I don’t know about the
    Filipinas living in Philippines but I can say certain things very
    surely about Filipinas living in Dubai.

    I had a relationship
    with a Filipina and I got to know about her secrets just 2 months after the
    relationship started. I really could not believe that how
    come a person can have secrets like that . Then I started researching
    about Filipinas behavior and their consideration for a relationships.
    I went to each and every Filipino colleague of mine just to know how come
    a girl can be so secretive. I kept researching for six months just out of
    curiosity how come people be so fake. During that time i broke up with my GF
    but kept friendship alive. Then slowly slowly she told me the below mentioned
    things about Filipinas and i got confirmation from almost all colleagues of
    mine + other Filipino friends of mine and reached to these conclusions and
    trust me 90% of them are like that and it is very normal for them (may
    be this is what their culture is or this is how they take the
    relationship).

    1. They make
    relationship with other nationals just to suck their money or to get passport
    of some western country, if the guy is White.

    2. Almost all
    Filipinas just play with guys for money ( they can date a guy just for 1
    time meal at KFC) and have more than 1 boyfriend for sure. If ur GF who is a
    Filipina is faithful and loyal to u, u need to wake up from ur illusion. She is
    not faithful, she is just clever and knows how play.

    3. Here in Dubai 90%
    are single moms and most of them lie and don’t disclose their marital status
    and their kids.

    4. Not all but more
    than 50% are into hidden prostitution. They have links and sleep with White
    guys or locals just for 500 bucks (sometimes even 300).

    5.A Filipina can leave
    her husband and kids just for a teddy bear, nice chocolate (not even expensive
    ones) and 1 rose. U need to pamper her with these 3 things for three
    days in a row and 4th day she’ll be in ur bed.

    Their image in Dubai
    is really bad. people think that they are easily available puss** and
    treat them like tissue paper (use n throw) almost without any efforts just
    because they behave cheap and low standard.

    .

    .

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    I dated a white guy once…when I was abroad had a sort of steady relationship with him but after five months of being together. I left for home then had to deal with his insecure shit over skype. To cut the story short I dated other Filipino men…he came back I didn’t care anymore. Hun, you haven’t dated enough guys to realize your own self in future relationships. Chopping dicks off is disgusting. You’ve got no respect for other human beings. Part of being human is to constantly get hurt and to hurt other people because were all different. That difference is what makes us humans really special. So stop being so insensitive. Men and their penises are the only pride they have left when they virtually have none to begin with.

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    So that was why I got cheated on by three of my Filipino exes. Sob. They couldn’t handle a little fight and wouldn’t put up with one. Oh, well, I’m over that. This was insightful at so many many levels.

    There’s no reason to put up with shit from one girl where there are so many more willing to sleep with you.

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    Hun, You should go see a psychiatrist because you spend so much time on comment sections just to prove a pointless point. I’m saying it as a fellow woman and also a Filipina. Don’t take everything on the net seriously. ha-ha.

  • Aya R

    Well I’d first like to start off with the fact you think I haven’t dated enough men. I’ve been with a lot of different races and my exs include caucasian, Greek and mixed race Iranian-Scottish, a majority however would be white as I live in the UK. Currently I am dating a British Indian and he knows the story of the mutilation. Obviously I wouldn’t do something crazy like to him that and he knows it. He’s got a dark sense of humour like myself and I think you need to lighten up and realise I wouldn’t literally do that myself, I simply stated what had happened in my mother’s village.

  • Aya R

    Does it look like I’m about to chop his dick off?

  • Aya R

    As said before, don’t assume you know someone just to seem intelligent!

  • Aya R

    Yes I did actually. About 19 years ago.

  • Simpleview123

    If you want to truly understand the Philippine culture and people, come live here for 20 to 30 years. Your views might change some.

  • Simpleview123

    You are a misogynist. Easy to see that by your writings. Your responses.

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    Are you that insecure to even include your personal life into an argument that doesn’t even makes sense. Sweet heart you clearly need to stop spreading hate and negativity and get your head and health checked out. What happened in the village must have clearly fucked you up since it sounds to me the poor sap who had his dick circumcised in the worst possible scenario must have probably been your dad. I know, I know I feel your pain sweet heart that’s why we have psychiatrist’s and Valium for those awful childhood traumas.

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    We also have a rope for when you decide to end it all in the most flashy manner. And I think you’ll like that since your so flashy and all. A great publicity stunt always does the trick or you could use a gun and shoot yourself with it because you need to learn to shut up when you’re so fucked up.

    My two cents of wisdom for you with no animosity in them. ✌

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    Lol bitch you need to stop being so sensitive to everything. Life is a fucked up existence even for girls and ladies of your caliber. I only said that cause I felt deep inside my black scarred heart that you are egoist who doesn’t know the difference between fantasy or reality. In fact I was just screwing with your head so I can get your reaction but I knew you would react cuz your typically on here like 24/7.

    Sounds like someone needs a gun more than a psychiatrist.

  • http://aksabello.wordpress.com aihia kashieka sabello

    Do you have a picture to prove it?

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    1) You’re a fucking racist.
    2) Stop talking like you know what its like in the Philippines cause obviously you dont even fucking know how it is here. Fucking twat.
    3) At least I try to sound intelligent than act like I am when in truth I have to talk and speak like a 3 gram brain sewer rat from the UK or should I say ukay ukay.
    4) Im just screwing wit ya cuz I’m bored. And I’m one of those brainless 3rd world Filipina with no hopes for the future but have a high tolerance rate for racist idiots like you.

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    There’s legal separation and annulment here. Two types of wedding too. One is civil where you can file for legal separaoution and annulment plus you have to wait til your marriage license expires after 5 years or so. The second type of wedding is religious which is just a fancy way of telling other people they’re married at the costly expense of the relatives. In other words catholic weddings doesn’t account for a strong foundation for a long term relation compared to civil weddings and there’s a law passed here that once you’ve reached a minimum years of cohabitating with your partner. You can file for it. Dont know the term. But its a form of agreement that helps when the couple separate and all the messy stuff like properties and children are equally award to the appropriate partner or parent.

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    Debbi I totally agree with you. Most young girls here are forced to believe in poverty and to let them believe that they’re salvation is abroad. This was one of the many things I hated growing up in a society that favored juanism. Its your right to protect your husband and your relationship because people here are very callous and cold hearted! They will not even acknowledge you oror ur hard workwork unless you strike it rich or famous.

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    And how many average Filipina populate the whole country. They’re everywhere.

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    Kid we have contraceptives. Not everyone likes raw sex like you.

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    Can you even define what libido means without google?
    Retard pig bitch

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    It seems that you love Philippine culture a lot. Might I suggest you start a fund raising event to remove all foreign invaders from our land in your tribal thing so we could all see ur brown ass out?

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    And ruin the children’s future with incompatible parents?

  • protectingmynamecauseimstoopid

    Fuck him tit or gtfo!

  • Raghu Nandan

    true to the core!!!!!

  • Aya R

    I don’t even need Google. I can understand my libido by how much sex I have. I’m sorry you can’t even get a woman to sleep with you.

  • Aya R

    Someone’s jealous!

  • Aya R

    You don’t even make logical sense. Just chill the fuck out.

  • Raghu Nandan

    just dozens in 9 years………trust me buddy…..in the last 6 years in Dubai……I have seen almost most of them are single moms…..separated with their BF (later they call him husband so that at least the baby knows who is his father) husband and have 2-3 BF either locals or Indias or half Arabs just to suck their money and feed their 2-3 kids back in their home town…………………….I have had a lot of experience and many Filipino friends…………………I can say it very confidently ………..they are the most UNTRUSTWORTHY people when it comes to relationship or money…………

  • Raghu Nandan

    Trust me u really have no idea about Philipinos………………….

    I don’t know about the
    Filipinas living in Philippines but I can say certain things very
    surely about Filipinas living in Dubai.

    I had a relationship
    with a Filipina and I got to know about her secrets just 2 months after the
    relationship started. I really could not believe that how
    come a person can have secrets like that . Then I started researching
    about Filipinas behavior and their consideration for a relationships.
    I went to each and every Filipino colleague of mine just to know how come
    a girl can be so secretive. I kept researching for six months just out of
    curiosity how come people be so fake. During that time i broke up with my GF
    but kept friendship alive. Then slowly slowly she told me the below mentioned
    things about Filipinas and i got confirmation from almost all colleagues of
    mine + other Filipino friends of mine and reached to these conclusions and
    trust me 90% of them are like that and it is very normal for them (may
    be this is what their culture is or this is how they take the
    relationship).

    1. They make
    relationship with other nationals just to suck their money or to get passport
    of some western country, if the guy is White.

    2. Almost all
    Filipinas just play with guys for money ( they can date a guy just for 1
    time meal at KFC) and have more than 1 boyfriend for sure. If ur GF who is a
    Filipina is faithful and loyal to u, u need to wake up from ur illusion. She is
    not faithful, she is just clever and knows how play.

    3. Here in Dubai 90%
    are single moms and most of them lie and don’t disclose their marital status
    and their kids.

    4. Not all but more
    than 50% are into hidden prostitution. They have links and sleep with White
    guys or locals just for 500 bucks (sometimes even 300).

    5.A Filipina can leave
    her husband and kids just for a teddy bear, nice chocolate (not even expensive
    ones) and 1 rose. U need to pamper her with these 3 things for three
    days in a row and 4th day she’ll be in ur bed.

    Their image in Dubai
    is really bad. people think that they are easily available puss** and
    treat them like tissue paper (use n throw) almost without any efforts just
    because they behave cheap and low standard.

  • Aya R

    Why are you so angry? Have you not been fucked in a while? Is that why you want me to make a porno?

  • Aya R

    You sound much more fired up than me. I’ve got a good life and a great relationship, that’s my reality so I’m not complaining. You sound so bitter it’s quite funny.

    FYI, I get email notifications on my phone and so I just reply to comments I get. Hardly psycho.

  • Raghu Nandan

    u really have no idea about Philipinos……………….People actually give them respect in the beginning but when they come to know about their intention to suck money and the layers of lies…………………they treat Filipinas like tissue paper…..use n throw………………………….Philipinos are not good people, I can say it very surely……………I m against discrimination and generalizing people on the basis of anything illogical……………………….but trust my words………….this is what they r…………….not 10% of them r bad…………90% of them r bad………….they r soft, polite, hospitable, even clean and hygienic but all of that is a part of a sweet trap…………………….I have had personal experience and I researched about their behavior continuously for 6 months because in my country it is almost next impossible people behave like this. So, I was surprised how come people be like that……I went to each n every collegue of mine and other friends of mine and many other victims of Filipinas…………………..I just found certain things………….

    They make
    relationship with other nationals just to suck their money or to get passport
    of some western country, if the guy is White.

    2. Almost all
    Filipinas just play with guys for money ( they can date a guy just for 1
    time meal at KFC) and have more than 1 boyfriend for sure. If ur GF who is a
    Filipina is faithful and loyal to u, u need to wake up from ur illusion. She is
    not faithful, she is just clever and knows how play.

    3. Here in Dubai 90%
    are single moms and most of them lie and don’t disclose their marital status
    and their kids.

    4. Not all but more
    than 50% are into hidden prostitution. They have links and sleep with White
    guys or locals just for 500 bucks (sometimes even 300).

    5.A Filipina can leave
    her husband and kids just for a teddy bear, nice chocolate (not even expensive
    ones) and 1 rose. U need to pamper her with these 3 things for three
    days in a row and 4th day she’ll be in ur bed.

    Their image in Dubai
    is really bad. people think that they are easily available puss** and
    treat them like tissue paper (use n throw) almost without any efforts just
    because they behave cheap and low standard.

    .
    .

  • Aya R

    Oh and also, Aihia, stop trying to hide your identity. I hope you put your degree from Cebu to good use rather than spend your days watching anime and being lonely.

  • Aya R

    Aihia, you need to learn how to speak to people, you sad and lonely little girl. Your anime profile picture on Facebook speaks for itself; you’re ugly and haven’t had any real relationships. Maybe it’s you who should kill yourself since you fail so hard at life.

  • Aya R

    Sorry but, DAYMN, no wonder you’re so bitter…

  • Aya R

    Yes I did actually. About 20 years ago.

  • Cleveratti

    At least she put a face behind all her comments. Unlike you who called her names and spouted disrespectful, hateful comments. You wanna call someone a name to try and put them down, you should put a face and a name behind those words of yours. I bet you’re as ugly as your words.

  • Cleveratti

    So you got burned and now you hate an entire culture. Pathetic.

    If you’re so convinced of your conviction, tell your Filipino friends what you think of them and see if you’re still friends after that.

  • Raghu Nandan

    Friend,
    I got burned, that’s one fact, I hate the entire culture that’s another fact and they are not TRUSTWORTHY at all, that’s also one of the facts…………………u accept it or not, it will not make any difference
    I can bet that u don’t know anything about Philipinos and I m not saying this out of anger…I had hatred against them till 6 months back but now everything gone is gone. so I m not kind of person who keeps grudges for someone for a long. I m mature enough to understand the characteristics of different people from different race differs. I know it very well that one person (my EX-GF) cannot define the entire Philipino culture but here the story is really different.
    In general, Philipinos are good, polite, they connect with each other so quickly.
    As they connect with each other so quickly and they all are same, they help each other in hiding the SINS of each other but at the same time they are good in case if u need information about their culture. U just go to them and tell ur whole story genuinely and they’ll just say one thing to u………..”.PARE (friend), be careful having a relationship with a FILIPINA”…….FILIPINA sare all the same”…………….they’ll give a genuine advice though they will not talk in details but they’ll give u a complete idea……………….
    for example, in my case when I went to so many Philipinos to know about the truth about Filipinas, after listening my story, they just told me one thing………”PARE (friend) u r a nice person but Filipinas are not good, they just need money and whatever has happened with u is normal for Filipinas……just don’t involve with Filipinas, just enjoy with them”…………………………..
    Even my manager who is a Filipina, said ” I m ashamed why Filipinas doing this to people and ruining the name of the country” but later I came to know that she herself married a German and extort a lot of money, then German old man caught her red handed having sex with her Philipino Boyfriend in her house when German guy went to office (it is common for Filipinas) and then German guy created a lot of trouble to this girl and he made a big issue in our office and everything was exposed……………
    .
    .
    .
    Trust my words, each and every Philipino around me know how much I hated Filipinas but they understand it very well that it is for a genuine reason. They understand deep inside their heart that I m not a wrong person, somewhere the fault is from their end……………..and they r still my friends, I go to their parties, enjoy and have a BLAST………………………………………….They don’t mind if u hate FILIPINAS because they know the truth and fact. In face they’ll give genuine advices…………..
    Have a relationaship with a Filipina, experience it and u’ll agree with me…………….If u r a white guy, they’ll not ditch u till the time she doesn’t get the passport but once she gets the passport, she’ll show u her true colors…………………..
    anyways, I just want to help people………..have relationship with FILIPINAS buy don’t involve emotionally……….just enjoy……………..and that’s why I wrote such a long long story, just to explain so that others can understand my point what I want to say………………………
    anyways,
    u accept it on not, doen not make any difference……………….it is not going to affect me in anyways……………..I m just trying to help people…………….I have seen people suffering emotionally and financially because of Filipinas………………..
    ..
    .
    .
    .
    ..

  • Z Kim

    Ugh more gross westerners looking to exploit girls from poorer countries.

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  • randomToaster

    Really? Well I love you.

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    Your blog is so disgusting you piece of shit! Why do you treat Filipina women like animals? M*ther f*ckr!

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    I agree. The blog owner is a freaking loser trying to get attention. I stumbled upon this site when my friend asked why there are so many young girls dating old farts? I googled and found this disgusting blog! Eeeew! Obviously he doesn’t know what he was talking about. Dumb ass Matt Forney with diminishing hairline!

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    stop generalizing dude!

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    FYI, there’s no divorce in PH.

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    I pity you Raghu. Obviously you haven’t met a decent girl because you cannot “TRUST” the girls you date. You even investigate, did your research and found this pig’s article. Awww! Try to keep an open mind dude! tsk tsk!

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    ya you don’t make any sense man. I’m a Filipina and I live in the Philippines. Aya is not a racist. She was just stating facts. If you are brave enough you would use your real ID and won’t post as a “guest”. Obviously you are Matt Forneypig fan, so just get lost. :)

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    Why do you those women chose to work in Dubai? Coz of the higher pay. Why do you think they lie to you about their husband or kids? Coz they want your “money” you gullible f*ckr……..My point is, it all boils down to money. They want to provide for their family. But please, stop generalizing. Not all PH women are like that. Try to go the corporate world in PH, some women here are independent and won’t care about your Dirham.

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    oh come on, you didn’t just copy and paste what you posted earlier. Your stats is full of sh%t. And your spelling sucks too. Just saying. :)

  • http://pinaynomad.com/ Pinay Nomad

    Your username stinks

  • Raghu Nandan

    my English is good or not or my spellings are correct or not, doesn’t matter…………….the fact will not change…………………

  • Raghu Nandan

    I do agree with u………if it is all about money,they should make it clear in the beginning of a relationship so that the guy does not involve himself emotionally with a Filipina………….Only the problem is that they trap the guy emotionally and once they r confirmed that the guy is deeply in love with them, they start using him…………………That is the only problem…………..I have seen many good guys approaching bad girls but not all the bad girls r same, some of them have a good heart too…..so when they come to know that the guy is emotional for the bad girl, they reveal everything to the guy….their past and present so that the guy can decide to go further in the relationship or not …………….they don’t hide anything just to trap a guy emotionally………………that is the only problem with FILIPINAS, they start using the guy once they know that the guy is deeply in love with the girl and cannot leave so easily…………..My point is that nobody is bad in this world, situations make people bad……………..but in case of FILIPINAS if they really want to do bad, do it in a right way so that it does not effect other person emotionally……….anyways, I hope u understood my point………………..and I m sorry if my earlier posts have hurt u in anyway…………………

  • tropicalhotdognight

    Ha nice one. What are you, two? You don’t even know where it comes from.

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  • Watt SirSteven

    Yeah, I just left Mindanao 6 months ago.. They do behead over there.. Thankful to be back in Florida

  • Watt SirSteven

    I spent 3 years in Cagayan De Oro… Northern Mindanao.. I married a wonderful Lady there! I always felt like a rock star wherever I went. I never went there to BANG women, but only to visit there… I love the beautiful woman and culture. The women in the Philippines treats men much better than American woman do! I was shocked at the difference.. They really believe in taking care of their man.. I asked Rose my wife, why she cuts my finger nails and groom me all the time. She told be this: “If you look bad baby, it makes me look like I don’t care for you.” I wish I would have went to the Philippines are in Asia years ago… I love you baby!

  • Nostradamus

    how did your mom came here? Of course idea of young beautiful girls wanting to sleep around with guys twice their age or more is wrong . These girls just want to get out of poverty by all means. This has helped you .If it was not for your mom’s heroic efforts of sacrificing herself for better life of her child you would have not been here.

    So dont be judgmental. God Bless.

  • Nostradamus

    how did your mom came here? Of course idea of young beautiful girls wanting to sleep around with guys twice their age or more is wrong . These girls just want to get out of poverty by all means. This has helped you .If it was not for your mom’s heroic efforts of sacrificing herself for better life of her child you would have not been here.

    So dont be judgmental.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Your post is so badly worded that I could barely make sense of it.

    My mother came to the UK as a midwife and was offered a place at University College Hospital in London. What is your point?

    My dad isn’t white, so again, I don’t know what your point is.

  • Nostradamus

    it is not black or white issue. I was not making racist issue. It is easy for you to judge . That is my point.
    You go back there where your roots are and live in extreme poverty.You will marry old man as well. Or you will be a prostitute.

    That is my point. You are lucky .You are sitting in prosperous country and judging how bad these men are or how slutty filipina girls are.

    why dont you go where you belong? you came to white country. We whites did not come to you.

    so if you want to make color issue then go back where u belong

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Why don’t you learn proper English before you try making a nonsensical argument?

    None of my aunties or female cousins in the Philippines are prostitutes.

    Oh and by the way, I am mixed race. I’m half Filipino and half Bengali, born and bred in a town called Bristol in the South West of England. I am British and I’m staying here thank you very much.

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  • R. Pauline

    I am a Filipina and my Australian bf moved to the Philippines as I have no interest in living wheresoever other than the Philippines. Sure, my Philippine passport holds me off with lengthy tourist visa processes but with patience and planning my bf and I can travel to wherever we want. I feel so sorry for you. I guess your money can only buy you a living in that area of the Philippines. Try living here in Alabang and for sure you will kick yourself out with the rent too high and the community too rich for you. Shame on you.

  • Sauron666

    I dated a filipina a while ago when I was there on business a few times a couple of years ago. Super nice and ridiculously perfect tiny body (very few American girls are anywhere near that — she was 29 y.o. and weighed only 37kg, which is ~82 lbs). Innocent and over-the-top sexy at the same time. Guileless and sweet with a heart of gold, but absolutely as dumb as a post. She was quite shy but did wear bikinis and pretty hot outfits and such. Teeth in braces and needed some help. I don’t remember ever in my life meeting a cleaner woman. No driver’s license, no passport, no credit cards, no checking account … it’s a whole different way of life.

  • slera

    how’s your new boyfriend doing? what number you on now?

  • slera

    Oh look someone upset a little western princess. booooooo hooooooo…

    You are the poster child for why western men leave to search for females abroad. Congrats.

    Do you enjoy posting images of yourself online to try and get approval from complete strangers on the internet? and putting other peoples looks down simply to try and build up your own insecure ego as you’ve already done here? you insecure little piglet. Your true colors are showing bitch. I would rather be with 10 SE Asian whores than a narcissistic western pig like you.

    Dumb little girl.

  • slera

    All women are prostitutes. Some just accept the money directly for sex while others (like you) want men to first buy you things and take you places and agree to be controlled by you before spreading your legs for them.

  • slera

    All women are prostitutes. Some just accept the money directly for sex while others want men to first buy them things and take them places and agree to be controlled by them before spreading their legs for you.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Go away Aihia, you bitter, ugly bitch.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Oh wow Aihia, you created another account just to have a dig at me. You must be really hurt that I called you out on your downright ugliness.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Hi Aihia, how are you today? Obviously love me so much to create this ‘slera’. Dumb bitch.

  • Cuddles

    Keep telling yourself that.

  • Cuddles

    Aya R. is a brainwashed Filipino raised with a steady feminist/leftist diet in America. She’s basically a loudmouth white broad’s mind planted in an (overweight) Philippine body.

  • Cuddles

    Not a white man that’s for sure.

  • Trustworthy

    Nothin’ in this world like a Filipina girl!!!

  • http://Unsigned.com/wwwebBrowser Chris H

    beware of them my friends, especially if you are a nice guy looking for the same.

    CIBCsilverio .wordpress .com

    true story, that you could not make up, and if you did, no one would believe you. She’s a embarrassment to women, to filipinos, and to humanity.

  • http://Unsigned.com/wwwebBrowser Chris H

    Read this, though I agree with most of your posts here, there are examples of them using people, and laughing as they screw your life up.

    CIBCsilverio .wordpress. com

    And do me a favour and pass it around, this creature needs to be shamed, and jailed, then deported.

  • http://Unsigned.com/wwwebBrowser Chris H

    Culture??, right is right, and wrong is wrong

    CIBCsilverio .wordpress .com

  • http://Unsigned.com/wwwebBrowser Chris H

    Read this Pinay, and explain her behavior if you can. And pass it through your community, she needs to be shamed, and jailed, then deported.
    CIBCsilverio .wordpress .com

  • timej31

    Very informative article.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002671136814 James Adams

    Then why do all non-White races try to come to White countries en masse?Why do non-Whites try to constantly marry Whites?In California most Asian females are educated and have above average wealth YET invariably they all want a blond,blue eyed husband.Your comment may make you feel better but I’ve seen empirical evidence to prove what I say.Personally I think Whites should marry only Whites,race mixing only diminishes our superior stock.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002671136814 James Adams

    Your slang and manner of writing is definitely American.Busted!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002671136814 James Adams

    Well put.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100002671136814 James Adams

    We don’t say mum but the English do.How crazy and mixed up are you.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    I think I would know if I was American and why would I try to hide my nationality? I was born and bred in Bristol, South West England; went to Kingston Uni in Surrey and I am now currently living in East London, near Whitechapel working as a Medical Sales Rep. Don’t believe me? I’ll give you my LinkedIn. I have nothing to hide; I’m not pathetic.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Hence why I said I am British you douche.

  • betterthanu

    Pinay are the biggest whores on earth they will fuck a refrigerator if it is white. Have fun but never fall in love only 70 losers marry these whores and i have fucked many of their wives

  • betterthanu

    Bullshit it is the truth. Look around you ignorant slut

  • betterthanu

    Aya you mom is a whore that fucked 100 white men before one was stupid enough to marry her. Been in Pinas 8 years a banged over 1300 and counting. Not 1 over 30

  • betterthanu

    You probably could not find her clitoris with a map loser

  • betterthanu

    Aya they have been little brown fucking machines for 100 years.

  • betterthanu

    Truth hurts

  • betterthanu

    You probably married one of these pigs. I probable banged your wife lol

  • betterthanu

    Ava trust me he is fucking around on you pig

  • betterthanu

    You never been to philippines. These are the biggest whores on earth

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Yeah, that’s why my mum married an Asian man…

    Stop spewing shit from your mouth, it’s embarrassing.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    You seem like an unintelligent douche bag that has never been in a long term relationship because women either find you ugly or because they realise they deserve better than you.

    Then you read articles that target easy girls because that’s the only girls you can get. Excluding the prostitutes you pay to sleep with.

  • betterthanu

    Aya projecting. The women are pigs that fuck anything white

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Well how else would the country be populated? Of course they fuck, every country’s people fuck. You make no fucking sense.

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  • Kizman

    “Brown fucking machines”… LOL!

  • Ivana Radin

    The only girls I know who think you are a rock star are impoverished, uneducated Filipina. I dunno ’bout you, but you don’t look attractive. And we’re not some Ghetto SE Asian country. Ever heard of the Thai guy who wouldn’t stop spouting racist shit about our country? He was extradited, and proclaimed persona-non-grata. I can do this shit to you as I did to him. Wanna have your name plastered all over FB? Or in the local news?

  • http://www.massplanner.com/ Cypher – Mass Planner

    I’m a filipino and I approve this comment.

  • Real Kayizzi

    hay Matt, its Peter,am plannin’ on headin down to the Philippines for a week or so in roughly a year n a half from for a break now but thought it wud be better if I had a rather extraordinary lady to give me some company uknowwhatimean right,, can u hook me up PS some that aint sluttish..

  • Real Kayizzi

    hay, its Pete, am planning on heading down to the Philippines for a week or so in roughly a year and a half from now or sooner for a break, but then thought it would be better if I had a rather charming LADY with some experience to show me around the beaches n the malls n all that …because, I have seen, experienced and believe that the Filipinos (both male and female) are the most hospitable people on earth for me.
    and speak good English as well.. so please I kindly request that you get back to me n’ let me know if you care to recommend any.. thnx PS: I would try hiring a tour guide but that didn’t turn out well last time I went on vacation

  • Natasha

    “When a girl wants to bring her friend along on a date, it’s a form of bragging: “

    I’m not just so sure if you’re referring to filipino women generally with this OPINION of yours. I’m a language teacher, most of my students are of course from different countries and we meet different people around the globe. I personally was asked to go out with a foreign white guy, I brought my friends along not because to BRAG but because some filipinos don’t just trust foreigners. Maybe for some, but not really generally.

    “This means you’ll only be able to see them a couple days a week at most. If you need companionship around the clock, you’ll have to make your peace with the idea of keeping multiple girls on rotation.”

    This is the reason why some filipinas don’t just get too serious in a relationship they have with foreigners. As you said, we’re cunning, yeah a little bit… but we just use our brain. Indeed, some filipinas are wise enough to play the games that foreigners tend to play with them that’s because it’s the same way we observe from other people’s experiences. We all do have TRUST issues here.

    ^_^

  • DDDDDuane

    I could tell you’re a typical horrible westernized girl rendered horrible and vile by amerikan jew media…(I could tell you’ve done the “dark” thang…)….
    You’ll be f-cking a new guy every year for the rest of your life until your looks go and no one wants you…
    I’m a White guy…It seems most of the White guys who go to to the Philippines are older messy guys with good intentions looking for a nice attractive younger woman to fall in love with…Basically taking their last shot at finding a decent nice woman because the woman back home are worth sh!t….(infected with jew think)…..
    (Some sleaze bags like Matt go there to be pigs but they are only getting the
    whores anyway… …)….
    Like anywhere else…Most of the woman there aren’t very attractive but they seem to be a thousand times better behaved than almost all intolerable horrible vile westernized woman infected with jew think….
    The “White Worshipping” is AFFLUENCE worshipping….These woman know White men have given this planet 90 percent of the inventions and technology that makes this life much easier…
    They will also treat their woman better than every other race on this planet (if they behave)…
    Those woman have NOT been subjected to the same jew concocted anti-White HATE that has been injected into your mind by jew controlled mass media, academia (and everywhere else you turn) in countries that were traditionally White but DESTROYED by the jew imported gruesome,stupid, ugly, dark criminal 3rd world…..

  • DDDDDuane

    Yes…We could tell she’s a nasty whore in amerika…

  • DDDDDuane

    Zen:…Another typical nasty amerikan whore…

  • DDDDDuane

    If you were there working 12 hours a day working 6 days a week you’d be drooling to suck off the first tourist you could find for cash….

  • DDDDDuane

    I wish she would STAY in her “mother’s village”…I could assure you…EVERYONE there would HATE her within a few months….

  • DDDDDuane

    Aya has obviousy had a mile of co-ck….assorted colors…(mostly dark…)…

  • DDDDDuane

    Like ANY of these filipina whores is going to admit that almost all of them are conniving whores….It’s like a negro admitting they come from a useless stupid destructive race of raping thieving killing savages….NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!!!!

    YES…. I AM GENERALIZING….
    IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THE TRUTH TOO F-CKING BAD!!!!

  • DDDDDuane

    We all know one thing…With that smelly sh!t skin you are getting nothing unless you pay for it…
    You would be better off in Brazil….Even in the Philippines you are at the bottom of the racial barrel…

  • DDDDDuane

    You like mexican women? The ugly mestizos with dwarf legs?

  • http://www.dakillahgenius.com Da Killah Genius

    theres some cute looking Mexican women around my way.

  • DDDDDuane

    smeer is a bullsh!t artist….Almost all indian men are almost as ugly as groids and he admits he’s ugly….If he ever banged one white girl I could assure you it was bottom of the barrel

  • Janik Litalien

    Long live the cunt man

  • Janik Litalien

    What I’ve noticed is that no matter where you go in the world, the so-called most religious places are where the most hypocrisy is found.

  • Janik Litalien

    No divorces but bribe the judge and you get it annulled…I know, my ex and I looked into it.

  • Someone

    I already knew I shouldn’t have read the article given the title, but I was curious so I did.

    First, this is objectively sexist and people should not call other people sluts, especially if they themselves are meeting many people at the same time just to have sex. And no, wearing a bikini should not make a person a slut.

    Second, in a healthy relationship, people should allow the other person to vent and listen. Of course, you are right, you don’t have to put up with that because you can always get the next short-term girl. I just hope you make it clear to the girls that you are not looking for a healthy serious relationship.

    Third, not “half” the filipina population wants to get with a white guy. It’s certainly a lot less than that. I get that this is based on your observation, but I guess our observations are different.

    No, I am not butthurt. I am just stating out my objections in a respectful manner. I know how bad some Filipinas can be. There’s no need to create offensive comments my way. No need to insult me, nor name call me. I’ll only accept well-thought out arguments. I am very aware of what American culture is like, and definitely, even in that culture, this article has some objectible statements.

    I don’t think there is anything wrong with harems and nonserious relationships. I just hope that you are honest enough to make these clear to the people you will be banging regardless of the fact they keep some things from you too. For example, the single mother may have legitimate reasons why she hid that fact. It’s actually a little weird for me why you were annoyed with that when you have a harem. Do you really need that information to for your harem?

    Anyhow, I hope those girls you date are smart enough to look up your name in Google to know what your views regarding dating are. Hey, I don’t believe in Christian marriage and destiny either. But I do believe in respect and honesty.

  • Kaye Mouthe

    You’re a dick. What a shitty blog. You disrespects women and generalized us all Filipino women. Ignorant.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    I used to stay in my mother’s village for the summer months growing up as a kid and I can assure you the people loved me.

    Your point please.

  • DDDDDuane

    You’re a typical vile westernized (subversive jew feminized) woman…
    I could assure you if you spent time in that village NOW you would be hated and be forced into carpet munching because NO MAN there would take you…..

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Quite happy transferring the skills from my current job/university degree if I did have to move to the Philippines.

  • DDDDDuane

    I’m sure you have a “junk degree” …useless in the Philippines….
    You were probably dumb enough to take out student loans for your junk degree….

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Let me just correct you in your belief that I am American. I am born and bred in the UK, mixed Filipino-Bengali. My mother married an Asian man she met when she was working in London as a midwife and he happened to be a man who was only a restaurant waiter (even worked in McDonald’s at one point). She had every chance to marry a white guy if she wanted to but she didn’t because, despite my dad being poor and usually drunk at the time, she fell in love with him because he wanted her so much.

    Now he owns a few properties including two large Indian restaurants in Bristol (where I was born and grew up) and had sent me and my brother to private school and we both went on to Uni.

    So yes, whilst I am westernized, I, like my mother, appreciate romanticism over money.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Well my “junk degree” got me a job in the Pharmaceutical industry and I’m currently renting in London, which is one of the most expensive places to live. So you tell me!

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Haha, the way you have to resort to childish insults because your underdeveloped mind cannot fathom anything remotely intelligent.

  • DDDDDuane

    It sounds like you’re a pharmacist dispensing poison for corporations that KILLS hundreds of thousands of people every year….You KNOW that crap you put in bottles KILLS people …You’re a corporate whore worse than any filipina hooker….

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Well I’m not a pharmacist but yes I do promote products. I’m sure you’ve never used painkillers in your life…

    Oh wow “corporate whore”, who did you learn how to insult from? Your mother?

  • DDDDDuane

    OH!!! You’re in Pharma sales….That is an even Worse WHORE than a pharmacist……You’re the one getting killer doctors to prescribe narcotics to weak imbeciles rendering them COMPLETE DRUG ADDICTS!!!!…. when the doctor cuts them off they become STREET DRUG ADDICTS!!!!
    You’re WORSE than any street drug pusher because YOU are the one GETTING THEM ADDICTED!!!!! (to line your pockets…)….
    NO!!!I would NEVER use ANY painkillers….Maybe aspirin once every few years….

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Wow, calm down. It’s a job in a capitalist country, to survive in this city you have to be ruthless and cold.

    Stop being so sensitive, there are plenty of things to worry about in this world than one random person working in the industry.

    Honestly, grow up. The insults are embarrassing.

  • DDDDDuane

    It sounds to me like you’re a HYPOCRITE….
    You wrote: “to survive in this city you have to be ruthless and cold.”

    You KNOW what you are doing is killing people but you continue ANYWAY….
    THEN….You have the BALLS to complain that men go to the Philippines to fuck multiple whore women (who’ve already had a mile of cock)…..
    You seem to be a ZILLION times worse….
    These women KNOW the deal and are basically only fucking sleazy men…
    YOU are KILLING PEOPLE…..
    I was in medical device sales…I walked away from an innocuous product simply because it DIDN’T WORK…..YOU continue pushing TOXIC SHIT!!!!!

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Seriously man, as I said, it pays the bills.

    I know what the drugs do but removing myself from my job would be a stupid idea if I have no other income.

    Sex is completely irrelevant to a typical 9-5 job. Degrading a woman is a mind set that can be changed if men were to recognise that treating women like they are nothing is unacceptable.

    Drugs exist and will continue to, I am fully aware that I am part of a corrupt organisation but sadly a large percentage of the London population, for example, work for corporations just as bad or worse. You can’t tell everyone to just stop working because of what they have fallen into through education.

  • DDDDDuane

    You’ve just admitted you’re a typical cold hearted sociopath….
    You would be great at a job working for the vicious federal government in amerika….(you remind me of Hillary Clinton’s younger lesbian girlfriend…)….
    You hate men in particular because you admitted your father was a drunk missing in action as you grew up…..
    Is there ANYTHING you wouldn’t do to earn a living?
    At least you are semi honest and admit the type of person you are…

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    I think someone is having a little trouble understanding! What I had said is that I work a typical job to get by because that’s how the education system guides people.

    You’re homophobic aren’t you? I’m not gay but I wouldn’t be ashamed if I was, so no need to use gay terms to try to offend. That just shows your immaturity.

    I pointed out my dad was drunk as he is now a high earner and owns his businesses. That he achieved so much because of love for his family. It’s called overcoming addiction. You need to learn how to read…

    Stop being such a bitter pussy now, will you?

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Correction:
    Aya R is an educated mixed Filipino-Bengali raised with an open mind in the city of Bristol in the United Kingdom.
    Generally quite reserved but not afraid to stand up for what’s right.
    Slim and toned, hasn’t got any health issues regarding weight.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    You’re a misogynistic idiot who can’t even spell his own country’s name.

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    My mum married a Bengali man even though she lived in white dominated London at the time.

    She came to this country to work in one of London’s biggest hospitals. My dad came over because my grandad had fought in WWII and was invited to stay here.

    I don’t have anything against white guys and I have dated a few in the past. If I end up with one then so be it but I look for a man who understands culture above all. Therefore the likelihood of me ending up with a white man is slightly less as I need someone who has a similar upbringing/mindset to me.

  • DDDDDuane

    Your dad is “wealthy” from 2 filthy London bangladeshi restaurants?
    Who are you bullshitting? (no one…)….

    You were stupid enough to mention my “immaturity” but immediately resort to calling me “bitter pussy”….
    Aww….I must have gotten to you…Sounds like you’re “on the rag”….

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    I said in Bristol not London, they are both 250 seater restaurants, one of which is in the city centre. Not to mention, our detached house has no mortgage on it and worth half a million on its own. So again, please tell me.

    You continue to be immature because you cannot handle an argument in an adult way, therefore I have stooped to your level so that you can understand better, you racist, misogynistic, lonely piece of scum.

  • DDDDDuane

    I’ll take being a “racist, misogynistic, lonely piece of scum” ANYDAY over pushing deadly toxic pharmaceutical painkillers. You’re a whore in more ways than the ones in the Philippines.(but like them as well….)
    You admitted that you know the shit you push kills people but you continue to do it anyway….
    You destroy and kill people for income…

    You already admitted to being a sociopath:
    “to survive in this city you have to be ruthless and cold”

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Go home, sensitive child.

  • DDDDDuane

    I’m actually planning my Philippines trip….Thanks!!!!!

  • https://www.facebook.com/aya.1991 Aya R

    Remember, don’t let go of mummy’s hand when you go there. Don’t want you getting lost.

  • DDDDDuane

    You mean only dumb 70 year olds marry these whores?
    How do you manage to bang their wives?

  • Jon_M

    Aya, sorry to read the comments you’ve had to put up with from some people. (As a resident of your home town glad you’ve made a good account of yourself tho!) Respect to you for making a success of yourself, that’s what it’s all about.

  • Sauron666

    Many of these observations are right on. Not sure about the bikini one. But be 100 percent sure that any filipina who sends you a pic of herself at a highish-end resort has dated white guys before you.

    One other thing: much, much, much more so than in the USA, tattoos or piercings definitively mark a slut. That being said, they will get them if they think you’d like them, once you’re in a relationship. One girl surprised me by getting a small tramp stamp with my name on it!

    All in all, while there are many scammers, there are also many girl who can really fall in love and don’t have a mean bone in their lithe bodies. Also, scamming is a relative term: it’s mind-bending how hard and unfair life can be over there. You’ll quickly be able to tell the difference between scammers and people who could genuinely use help once in a while. They do face legitimate crises from time to time. While you should never let yourself be manipulated, you might want to lend a hand when the chips are legitimately down.

    In my opinion, some of God’s most beautiful creations are Cebuanas, who tend to have higher cheekbones and more angular features than the round-faced girls up in the Manila area. If you like thin, tiny girls with literally perfect bodies, long black flawless hair, medium-brown skin, and are a good guy and are a natural leader, try it out. Win their trust and invest some time; don’t just be a boor.

    Age does not matter in the least. I’m 51 and on a recent business trip dated an 85-lb. 19 year old there and neither she nor her parents (who were younger than me) saw anything wrong with it.