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Narcissism, “Rape Culture” and Why Millennial Girls Are Monsters

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“Don’t teach women to do x, teach men not to do y.”

That’s one of the refrains of the modern woman. Whenever something bad happens to a girl and anyone suggests how a change in her behavior might have helped her avoid misfortune, the victim lobby starts up their unison chant. Girl gets raped? “Don’t teach women to avoid rape, teach men to not rape women.” Nudes leaked onto the Internet because you idiotically trusted Apple’s cloud computing“Don’t teach women to not take nude selfies, teach men not to hack womens’ phones.” Got hit by a car because you were too busy reading your Instagram comments? “Don’t teach women to look both ways before crossing the street, teach men not to run over women.”

Basically, suggesting that women do anything to protect themselves in a cruel, hostile world makes you an evil misogynist.

I used to think that this was just a natural outgrowth of the left’s utopianism. One of the defining aspects of left-wing ideology is the belief that the evils of the world—war, poverty, animal abuse—can be eliminated entirely. This stems from their blank slate fundamentalism, their view that all humans are equal and all behavior is socially created and constructed. According to feminists, if men rape, it’s not because of some rare, inborn character defect that would be impossible to eradicate from the population, but because a nebulous “rape culture” somehow convinced him that having sex with women without their consent was okay. From this standpoint, the whole logic of “don’t teach women to do x, teach men not to do y” actually makes sense.

I still believe this mentality plays a role, but I think there’s also a darker element at play. While the idea that it’s men’s collective responsibility to not rape women or foster “rape culture” has been popular for some time, the repulsion that women have to doing anything to safeguard themselves has intensified in the past couple of years. As recently as 2009 or 2010, most feminists would concede that yes, it’s a good idea for girls to take steps to ensure their well-being. Nowadays, even hinting that women bear individual responsibility for their lives is enough to get you sent to the virtual stockade.

In the past couple of years, something has changed.

I first started thinking about this when feminists started Tweeting insulting comments at me and sending me rude emails and Facebook messages. I very rarely engage with my haters on social media, mainly because there are better uses of my time. Instead, I will re-Tweet and Favorite abusive comments hurled at me on Twitter. Whenever I do this, feminists go absolutely bonkers:

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I’m not the only one who’s witnessed this: one feminist once wrote about how she spent twenty minutes crying because Hugo Schwyzer Favorited one of her Tweets. He didn’t insult her, humiliate her, try to hurt her: all he did was hit the Favorite button. Keep in mind that no one forced these girls to Tweet at me, yet when I respond (in a limited way) to their threats and insults, they do the modern equivalent of a Victorian lady fainting on the couch. What’s going on here?

Answer: narcissism.

I’ve written extensively about the narcissism of young women in the West and of leftists in particular, and this is yet another dimension of it, married with poor socialization. Narcissists live to control and manipulate other people, which requires them to be able to predict how those around them behave. When people act in ways that defy a narcissist’s expectations, they are unable to keep their composure and often break down mentally. This is part of the reason why “amygdala hijacks” are so effective when it comes to bringing narcissists under control.

Narcissistic young women expect that men will behave in ways that are convenient for them, whether it’s not trying to “rape” them (in a world where “rape” now means everything from forcible penetration to making her uncomfortable), fitting into a pre-determined relationship script, or shirking from “misogynistic” opinions and running away. When reality fails to conform to their desires, they can’t handle it. They literally cannot understand that other people (and men specifically) are autonomous beings and not meat puppets that dance in the exact way they want.

The source of this dysfunction? The sheltered upbringings that millennials had.

Pediatricians typically advise young parents not to immediately answer their babies when they start crying for something as a means of helping the child’s mental development. When babies are born, they are self-absorbed and solipsistic, unable to comprehend the world beyond their own needs and wants. By delaying when it comes to responding to the baby’s crying, the child learns that the world does not revolve around them, a crucial step in self-actualization.

Millennial women are monsters precisely because their parents denied them this treatment.

The cloistered, sheltered fashion in which millennials were raised, from helicopter parenting to “don’t talk to strangers” to parents freaking accompanying their adult children to job interviews, robbed young women of the opportunity to grow up. Failure and pain are the only ways to develop empathy; it’s only when you’ve fucked up that you learn that other people around you have feelings and wants, and that you can’t just trample all over them to get what you want. But because women these days are coddled by both their parents and society in general, constantly rescued from the consequences of their actions, they never learn to understand the humanity of other people. To them, men are just tools to make their lives more convenient.

The accession of millennials into the already female-centric mainstream culture has brought with it the personality defects of their women.

To the narcissistic woman, asking her to take personal responsibility is the worst insult you can hurl at her. Why should she have to worry about her own safety? After all, rape is wrong, therefore men should not engage in it. The idea that there’s a whole universe out there that isn’t at her beck and call—that doesn’t care whether she lives or dies—simply does not compute. You might as well be speaking Mandarin to a starving African peasant.

And yes, this is monstrous behavior. It’s difficult for men to accept, but the vast majority of the women you are dealing with are hollow girls. Empty shells. Vacuous entities with a gaping hole where their souls are supposed to be. To these women, you will never be—can never be—anything more than an accessory, a clown, a thing to amuse her. And while you do your little clown dance, she demands that the rules of the world be rewritten to suit her, something that not even the most powerful men on the planet have the power to do.

Don’t teach women to do anything, teach men to not do anything other than what women want.

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  • Reading this makes me shudder in memory of my blue-pill days when I went out with a self-described ‘feminist’. Somehow the topic of rape came up and I pointed out that successful legal prosecution of s. assault is fraught with problems due to victims’ reluctance to testify, lack of witnesses etc. She was outraged and became emotional with the whole ‘it’s so simple, just teach men not to rape, my friend was raped by her boyfriend’. I was so confused by the sheer idiocy of this that I just tried to comfort her, not realising the whole act was just a ruse to project her special-snowflake victim-class status.
    If a girl wants to discuss something as serious as s. assault and is not willing to educate herself on the most basic legal procedure and crime statistics, she is just using it as a tool to create a frame where she takes the moral high ground and you must defend hypothetical crimes with your pleading of ‘due process’ and ‘habeas corpus’.

  • citizen49a

    It’s now clear to me that, as women have always told us, rape is about power, not sex. But in these strange days we now inhabit it’s not male power we’re talking about: Rape is now a continuously evolving instrument for the accretion of increasing female power.

    The game is played on numerous fronts. A couple of the more common ones are redefining rape by changing the way one defines the consensual sex act to require males to continuously seek some kind of ill defined affirmative consent when engaged in behaviors leading up to actual intercourse, and shifting responsibility for containing the undeniable, powerful instinctual drives triggered when males are aroused from the likely target to the inflamed.

    But it’s worse than that. The latest kink in the game now seems to be to inflame males instincts as powerfully and irresistably as possible, and then yell “timeout”. Or just to traipse around knowingly inflaming those drives, and expecting to be as safe as a demure eleven year old girl scout out selling cookies, as a matter of right.

    Is that narcissism? I don’t know. To the extent that narcissism is about craving attention, forcing that attention, and then controlling the object that grants that attention, yes, I guess it is.

    But here’s the thing: If the sex act itself is now so unimportant to women that they are now devoting themselves to treating casual sex as, well, casually and insignificantly as men always have, as evidenced by the new norms for feminine behavior, then it’s time to “woman up.” Admit that rape isn’t the big deal it traditionally has been in the Western legal tradition.

    It can’t be. Rape may be about power, and we can debate whose, but it is defined ultimately by intercourse. If intercourse doesn’t really matter anymore, then the question of whether it’s consensual or not necessarily takes on less significance.

    I’m not saying rape is OK. What I am saying is that guys shouldn’t go to jail for thirty years or sit in the electric chair for it.

    You can’t have it both ways. Either a woman’s virtue is invaluable and she makes at least some nominal effort to protect it; or it’s just valuable and she has no particular responsibility to preserve it. If the latter, then we shouldn’t be treating this crime as harshly as we do.

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  • Brittny

    If women want independence from men in all things, then they should start concealed carrying their own personal firearms (and taking courses on how to use said firearm safely) instead of bleating about how bad and unsafe the world is, and how it’s not their fault when bad things happen. OF COURSE bad things happen, to everyone, for many reasons. That doesn’t excuse anyone from doing their utmost to avoid or be prepared for said bad things. I may have a different viewpoint since I am married to a concealed weapons carrier who shoots regularly, was raised in the military and police culture with emphasis on self defense and awareness, and live in Utah (one of the biggest gun toting states around) but you just can’t rely on the police to save you from everything. You can’t strut around in slutty clothes and drink yourself insensible, waking up in the morning in the bed of a stranger and claim rape.

    Kudos on another straight up honest article, Matt Forney. I like your views and enjoy the articles on health, travel and manosphere subjects…particularly your view on the silliness of demonizing all women. It’s true…most women out there are not rabid feminists (Portland is an exception :) any more than all men are chauvinist pricks. Perhaps some real world interaction could be the RX for excessive manosphere angst…and I’m not talking the bar scene kind.

  • Retrenched

    About one thing, Ayn Rand was right. Governments exist to punish criminals, and when there aren’t enough criminals for them to punish they create new ones by passing so many laws that it becomes well nigh impossible for anyone to obey them all.

    Telling young women to avoid getting blackout drunk around a bunch of guys they don’t know, or teaching them to shoot and getting them guns and concealed-carry licenses, would no doubt cut way down on rapes, but it would not empower or enrich a single feminist anti-rape activist, nor would it give the judges and police new criminals to arrest and punish.

    People who make their living fighting “rape” will never run out of “rape” to fight — even if they have to expand its definition to include consensual acts of sex the girl later regrets.

  • NRx3r

    I’m not 100% sure female narcissism is actually a learnt behaviour. I think there is a case for it being inate, and an evolutionary advantage.

  • ray

    The real center of feminism and its conquest of western civ isn’t screeching fems in Women’s Studies Programs. It’s the parents of American females. That’s where their narcissism, bullying, and power-victimization begins, and is nurtured. Those parents have benefitted greatly from the feminist society of the past four decades — economically, politically, and in many other ways. Yet nobody wants to talk about this, and no wonder. Because this demographic includes the very persons who were supposed to be resisting — not enabling, funding, and legally codifying — the gynarchy: right-wingers and other ‘conservatives’.
    Try convincing any of these people that their perfect princesses need LESS protection and entitlement. You’ll get rage in response. Left or right.

    Adding the parents-of-daughters to the already powerful demographic of True Believer feminists, women (in general), the elites and super-rich, and the rest of the Protected Classes (homosexuals, people-of-color, etc.) forms an unbeatable political and cultural bloc. It’s impossible to ‘vote out’ these people or reform the system by political means. The numbers simply aren’t there.

    Cheers.

  • Titan000

    ”If women want independence from men in all things, then they should start concealed carrying their own personal firearms (and taking courses on how to use said firearm safely) instead of bleating about how bad and unsafe the world is, and how it’s not their fault when bad things happen. ”
    Even the feminists of the middle east do better than the feminists here:
    http://edition.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/meast/10/06/iraq.pkk/
    http://defence.pk/threads/pkk-pyd-unleashing-a-social-revolution-in-kurdistan.329565/

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  • Matt Lama

    Real rape – not the feminist definition that means rape can be anything – but actual violent, forcible rape, is already an extremely rare crime. Giving guns to emotionally unstable children ie. women in a society that privileges them with being above the law and unaccountable for their actions is a recipe for disaster. Many innocent men will be murdered by women who got offended or felt uncomfortable by a man’s presence and decided to shoot because – feminism and empowerment. I think you are a fool.

  • fluffybiskuts

    Great article Matt. Spot on. The affluence of the West , paradoxically, is going to destroy us. The affluence, mostly provided by men and their hard work, has allowed us ( especially ladies) to be silly and pursue useless degrees like Women’s Studies. Another insult to hurl at the gals is “boy sounds like a first world problem to me. Way more important than global warming or the Ebola epidemic”.
    Also have you noticed that all these women that are getting “raped” all go to these uber elite , super lefty universities like Vassar , Oberlin and Mt Holyoke?? Really ?

  • Driver

    You see and hear about this “trend” everyday. Women cheering each other on because it’s empowering and if anyone questions it then they are stepping on a woman’s “freedom”. It’s bullshit. Adults should be called out on their behavior (yes, that includes all of the special snowflakes – women).

    Women can’t have the equality and freedoms that they complain that all men have without accepting a little personal responsibility. Most women are just fucking delusional, anyways.

  • Driver

    Sadly, much of this entitled attitude was brought on by corporations (consumerism). These companies cater to women, nonstop, so they’ll spend their dollars on their products, in their stores, etc…

    So, we now have a culture of 5 year olds (women) running around with money to spend and a bad, entitled attitude.

  • ray

    Agree 100 percent. cheers

  • Days of Broken Arrows

    What bothers me more than the sentiment is the tone they take: “OMG Matt Forney was mean now I wanna puke.” This was of writing has the cadence and feel of middle school girls. This does not sit well on women pushing thirty. Women who think writing or speaking this was is cute should Imagine the reverse: what if the middle school boys you once knew still spoke like they were out of “Beavis and Butthead.” Hehe. He said “butt!”

  • Daniel Holland

    I am glad I was socially awkward in school. Combined with my father (whom I strongly believe was a nascent red piller since we can communicate on the same wavelengths about gender, economics and diversity even now) I learned that I am not an island, the value of other people, and most of all when I am being manipulated by someone who doesn’t really like me. But I am a dick so it had its cons.
    Girls these days have no such humility checks often times, but even when they do they also are coddled as victims who are just misunderstood by everyone else. Everything from the unpopular girl being innately virtuous and getting the hunk to ‘muh patriarchy’ reinforces a gynocentric worldview even in girls who dont have it all.

  • Rope

    This one is funny, but not as funny as some of the others, had to actually read this one through and it was just sort of ‘oh, okay he’s being really hypocritical and using the whole “women r mentally derranged etc, etc” again’ but I think he’s run it into the ground it isn’t as controversial anymore when all his articles are ‘I have an Oedipus complex and was bullied by girls in school therefore NO WOMAN LOVES ME WAAAH THEY SUCK’
    Someone get this guy a fleshlight lmao

  • joe

    How many girls have you raped Matt? You sound sad that people are calling you out as the piece of shit you are. PUT YER VAGINA AWAY BUDDY AND MAN UP lol

  • joe

    You whine constantly about people who are smart enough to see through your bs. ATTA BOY

  • joe

    “A man can do whatever he wants and all girls are slutZzzz” -Matt Forney

  • Phantom

    Exactly. It’s an industry. They *want* there to be ‘victims’.

  • Bo Jangles

    Feminism is a shit test; western culture failed.

  • Kevin_OKeeffe

    More sage wisdom from Mr. Forney. These articles are like a public service.

  • Guest

    When you called women hollow girls it made me think of this:

  • wiffle

    I’m going to disagree with you one minor point: infants need adults to respond to them. As with so many areas, this is the moment where experts are full of you know what. My guess is you’ve never had to care for one, but newborns are more animal than human. They’re born 3 months too early (not even a social creature in the most social species) and entirely dependent on strangers. They don’t even have teeth for 6 months. When they cry, they need. That ends at about 12 months when they start to walk, but until then ignoring a crying infant is a setup for universal misery.

    After that, I’m with you. The same Mothers who carefully let their 8 month old cry it out can’t seem to kick their 21 year old out of the house lest they be hurt or can’t make it. We need to not have everything made right for us by our parents.

  • curious

    How does the ideal woman behave Matt Forney? How does she avoid rape? And how does she combat the “cloistered and sheltered” environment in which she was raised? Furthermore, how does the millennial boy turn out, considering his sister has turned out so poorly?

  • Redwood

    I think any blue-pill beta who endorses feminism, SJWs, and any other radical left-wing ideology feel powerless in a way. They are actually believing in the hype that without a woman, man is not complete.

    That’s just my two cents.

  • disqus_0azzIgyKgQ

    “Vacuous entities with a gaping hole where their souls are supposed to be.” Excellent line, what a description!

  • Dan

    Deliberately arousing a man just to call “timeout” on him is one of the most despicable things a woman can do. Unfortunately, they get away with it because we pretend that there’s no way a woman could ever be sexually immature, and we treat men as guilty until proven innocent when it comes to accusations of rape or sexual assault.

    I’ve even encountered older women who hate the way that many younger women act these days. I once read a blog post from an older woman who said, “I have a big problem with teaching everyone that ‘no means no’ without also teaching young women that ‘yes yes yes yes yes yes yes yes…no’ might not turn out all that well. If you mean to say ‘no,’ don’t imply otherwise.”

    In a perfect world, no man would ever feel compelled to rape a woman, but the world is not perfect, and there are bad people out there. Nobody ever deserves to get raped, but women aren’t nearly as helpless as we’re supposed to believe they are. Men who rape deserve to be punished, but women need to exercise enough common sense to greatly reduce their risk of becoming targets. Not getting drunk off their asses would be a good start.

    “Well how would you feel if you had a daughter who was raped?” The same way I’d feel if I had a son who was framed, that’s how.

  • You Ain’t No Sanjaya

    I am 41 and had a conversation with a 26 year old girl yesterday about two of her male roommates, who only date girls on tinder and avoid calling anyone their girlfriend, rather they say, “we just hung out for a few weeks”.

    Oddly enough, I found this blog googling “why won’t millennials call you their girlfriend”.

    It’s definitely true that things have changed a shit ton in the 10-15 years it took for gen exes to be replaced with millennials. I feel like a common theme in 80s movies and in my young adult life was that slightly too sensitive guy who liked a girl, but couldn’t tell her. Now guys just don’t seem to really like girls at all and girls kind of band together in weird ideological groups to avoid dealing with guys as well. Don’t ask me which side changed first, but the dynamics do seem to feed men and women’s alienation to each other.

    In the divide, it seems like there’s a lot of drunken hookups and an increased discussion of rape culture–unsurprising when a bunch of people who detest each other try and hook up as frequently as possible.

  • Matt,

    I’ve been a reader for over 2 years now and I greatly respect your writing.

    This is a great post and I think that, as someone who is not a narcissist at all myself, non-narcissists have some trouble really understanding the degree of psychopathy that people can have since we don’t think that way.

    As for the causes. I would throw a lack of strong father figures in there too. Plus easy access to and the social acceptability of sex.

    Mainstream culture stands to make money by engaging men and women as consumers. Eg Tinder, porn, fueling the drinking culture, etc. Our generation doesn’t have whole lot of motivation to grow up, and we aren’t really even instilled with that message. It’s all about following your dreams.

    Yet as a now 28 year old man, I can see how vapid all of this behavior becomes when you continue it into your late 20s and 30s, as a male or female. Shiny on the outside, feels good at first…and then all of the sudden you are Belle Knox, a used up slut who no good man will ever take seriously for a relationship, something you didn’t think about when you first started.

  • Aryan Jesuite

    “If women want independence from men in all things, then they should start concealed carrying their own personal firearms…” uh – so women need to be their own police force complete with concealed carry in order to be independent from men? well that’s how criminals see things too. When one is an ‘outside the law’ one is required to set up a security system for themselves. The more risk the more security required – the more money the more guns… could be an exchange of precious metals between two individuals who are not paying taxes on the transaction and are without license or concealed carry. They both bring guns since one has cash and the other gold. This is the logic of setting up one’s own security force and it’s illegal unless your’e a woman… well ok then – what’s good for one is good for another – if your’e packing then I’m packing.

  • BicycleSeat

    This is a description of Gen X women as well, don’t kid yourself.

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  • Blu Soulstn

    Don’t teach women to not take nude selfies, teach men not to hack womens’ phones.” But seriously… don’t hack other peoples phones, ANYONES phones man or woman yeesshh what a bad example

  • gizzard of oz

    A few tips for avoiding rape – do not: dress in clothing that can easily be ripped off when walking in the street (above knee dresses, low cut tops, etc), drink (consuming alcohol is drug abuse, and it greases the path towards promiscuity) or take other recreational drugs, hang around with muh-dick idiots (this is key: idiots come in all shapes and colours. Eternal adolescents whose raison d’etre is the hedonistic pursuit of pleasure). Funnily enough women can do the ‘grind’ dance and shake their axe-wounds all night long in nightclubs, as rape doesn’t occur here. It’s walking home alone inebriated, or with a bad boi where the (regret) rape can occur. Come on, it’s not that difficult to figure out how not to get raped. Pro-tip: try taking a few lessons from every male on the planet who has known since age 5 that he could get his head battered in at any moment if he puts himself in the wrong situation.
    Combating cloister – read the great works of the ages. One will quickly realise that comforts, and particularly material wealth, are only fleeting and are unnecessary. The problem with millenial culture is the consumerism and status whoring. That doesn’t mean we should all become poor, we can do our best in the life we were born into. Women can gain greater empathetic skills by volunteering to work with down syndrome kids, old folks, or work in a homeless kitchen. Women are naturally better at empathetic vocations, such as nursing. Interacting with people is very important, as the predominant culture emphasises isolation and digital interaction.
    Millenial boy will also turn out poorly, as will other generations whose cultural foundations are being eroded by digital/consumer culture. Boys are less cosseted than girls however, and are generally better able to undertake steps to better their character independently. The guidance of the patriarchy is usually necessary to make sure women don’t turn out to be monsters, as Forney describes. The male mind is more suited for introspection and abstract thinking, which also confers an advantage on the millenial boy. But as you can see, the general trend is that a lot of people are getting pretty fucked up, pretty fast.
    Not answering on Forney’s behalf, just chiming in with some personal and hard-earned wisdom.

  • george

    Thank you citizen49a,
    I read the link you posted. Some very good information and food for thought.
    I am going to focus on doing something positive every day.

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  • Roz

    Woah. I’d never thought of that. Probably some truth there!

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  • Senzu

    The entire U.S. society it influenced by feminism in general, seems like all the men has long disappeared. Also women in general are more perverted, but again no one see this because of the feminist mentality in the U.S. I can prove, how many women you know have a sex toy or to the point, a dildo. Now how many men have a sex toy…..almost none, and God forbid a woman know a man with one, automatically he’s a pervert, so why are so women exempt from this view, if equality is equality and then this proves they’re more perverted. Also don’t say they can’t use their hands to satisfy themselves because it not the same as a penis because guess what, they use it regardless. Also, hands are not the same as a vagina, so why should men be looked down in this way, again another double standard here in the U.S. due to feminist mentality.

    As far as rape cases lately, well the women today sleep around just as much as men or more, that’s equality to them. They want to go out, get high and drunk without any consequences, but if one of them ends up naked it’s automatically a rape case, whereas when this same thing happens to a man, it’s just a joke to everyone involved…..what’s the difference there since we’re equal. Also these girls play dumb after the fact, before the fact they all want to go out and have fun, get drunk because then they can’t be blame for what happens. I can’t tell you how many girls I know go out and hang out, and get drunk just to get laid, but let’s move on.

    We need and organization to fight for men in the U.S. The meninist was just a prank and those fucked up feminist were offended by it. Well we need a real “Meninist” like organization to fight for mens rights, and I’ll tell you why. Men face the worse end of it in the U.S. also, but no one speaks up, there’re no organizations that fights for Men’s rights similar to the feminists organizations who fight for more than equal rights….here’re other examples of what I mean and it’s only a few, I can write a book on this topic if I cared to:

    I’ll post this again to show that society has double standards all around. Men should start fighting for their rights as well, since these double standards seems perfect to all feminists who helped implement them. What equal rights? Men do not have it better or easier. In the U.S. issues for men are just as bad, if anything worse, so here are some double standards that are overlooked and considered normal here.

    The Medical Field in general, statistically they say that men don’t go get check up as much as women, yet no one knows why or claim that they do not. Well ask any male and you’ll find out why. In the U.S. men are left on display for everyone to see, and it’s the norm here. Even in situations where there’s no reason to be exposed, they will if you’re a male. Most of the medical workers are female and they tend to cover up the female body right away. Men they leave naked (completely undressed) even if there’s no need, especially if you’re unconscious when you get to the ER. Most men just follow along because they don’t even know the basic HIPAA laws that hospitals don’t care about this when it comes to male privacy as well. The comparable would be a female exposed with legs wide open spread eagle….that’s the equivalent if you want to compare it to a male being exposed.

    Another one are female sports reporters being able to go into the men’s locker room even while athletes are completely naked. Their reasoning is that they’re being discriminated against due to being female and it’s unfair. The feminists movement fought for this and somehow got it to past legislature. Where are the male activists to fight against this? We have no one fighting for men’s rights, so things like this happens. Again the equivalent of this would be male reporters in the female athletes locker room while they’re spread open for all to see…..that’s the only comparison. See how ridiculous that sounds, that’s because it is, but yet it’s accepted as a norm for men to go through that, but not women. Also male athletes are the pinnacle of male society, not the same for women…..so really the equivalent would be the a male reporter inside the locker room of miss universe or other pageants while they were naked and spread…..think about that. Male reporters are not even allowed in the lockers rooms while the female athlete’s are undressed, let alone legs spread apart…..so why are female reporters allowed in locker rooms while men are naked and on full display? This should be illegal, and if not, then let the men inside when the female athlete’s are naked….then and only then it would be “equal”

    Another one in the U.S. is male circumcision. The main reason given is that left uncircumcised, men are more prone to infections and such, and it’s unclean. We all know that a vagina is a lot more “unclean” than a penis, why are women not subjected to parts being cut off? Another ridiculous feminist idea that everyone just accepted. Less than 5% of the U.S. are of the religions where this practice is a tradition, so why is the circumcision rated around 80%. The ironic part about this is that women are voluntarily cutting their vaginas themselves because when they get older or if it’s to “ugly” they want the option to make it look better. Look up vaginal rejuvenation, or Vaginoplasty and Labiaplasty. So women make this choice by themselves, but they took it away from men, they make that choice for men also. How fucking boldface is that?

    All of this will change in time as later generations would see how backward thinking the people of our time were and they’ll look back in disbelief. An example of that in current day is now we look back at the days when men were only allowed to swim if they were naked or nude while women were fully clothed. Seems unreal but it’s true. Now a man would go against swimming naked, because it’s unheard of today. Isn’t being forced to swim naked in front of the opposite gender backward, wrong an invasion of your human rights? Which one of you all would do that now in front of women who’re fully clothed? So why are men not fighting for their rights in the medical environment or in the locker rooms. Male modesty is out there but the feminists only fight to take it away. They don’t fight for equal rights, they fight for more.

    Time changes everything, and the double standards that we see today will change as well. Later generations will look back and wonder what was wrong with ours. We’ll be labeled as a backward civilization just as how we look back and label past civilizations as such, and they’ll be right to say that.

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  • Pete

    We live in a wealthy culture that can easily afford such narcissistic attitudes. Unfortunately that wealth is borrowed. When it comes time to pay the piper and we have no money then all this silliness will just fade away as people are forced to concentrate their efforts on the immediate.

    Nb: not in a shtf/prepper type way but in a society without so much abundance.

  • AG

    “Narcissists live to control and manipulate other people, which requires them to be able to predict how those around them behave.”

    You are great a describing your purpose and who you are :)

  • AG

    Whoa? You think men have it bad? I almost laughed out loud. Our, and the majority of the world’s societies, are considered completely patriarchal. I am so sorry you can’t jack off anywhere and everywhere you want.

    Also, as far as circumcision goes ,it is a religious choice, don’t blame feminism because a bible written two thousand years ago says circumcision is cleaner and your parents believe that (fyi, those ideas were written SOLELY by men). If it is preventing you from illness, what is your real issue?

    All of your equality points are silly and blown-up. If you don’t want women seeing you while your changing or in the nude (you could request a male doctor..) take that up with the courts, but I doubt you really care or mind that much. Also, the situation about being forced to swim in the nude–well remember back in those good ol’ days, it was men making all of those laws. Looks like your against your own gender too! Maybe you should write a book about how you are the most important being on the earth (after all, everyone else is just stupid for not agreeing with you, I mean, people just are NOT treating you well at all, you poor thing), I’m sure it would be a hit with all the same narcissists and misogynists.

    If you are actually concerned about equality, talk about women in the White House, or wage gaps. You don’t care about equality, you are just angry because you can’t get away with the same shit against women you could have 40 years ago.

    I know, you strongly believe that you are superior in any way (except for baby-making!), but really, soon and very soon no one will give a fuck about these idiotic comments. Might as well quit now :).

  • Senzu

    Go do some research before you talk out of your ass, because you’re just an angry misguided feminist talking shit it seems. If you actually took the time to read my post or do some research, you’ll realize what I stated was less my opinion and more based on facts, or norms of society if you want to call it that.

    As far as that point on wage gap, are you an idiot? What time period are you living in? For every job you can find out there, people make what they bargain for…..there’re not fucking set rules that say women makes this much and men makes this much more, how slow are you that you can’t see that? If women are making lower in our society it’s because that’s what they agreed to, her own choice. Also go look into any job and you’ll see that salaries vary across the board for the same exact titles, so that would mean that there’re women making more than men there wouldn’t it? What you stated about wages means that for any given title every man makes more than every women that hold that job, well wake the fuck up because that’s not how the world works, you make what you settled for.

    Circumcision in the U.S. is not a religious choice, common sense would tell you the majority of the population are not Jews or Muslims, but like certain feminists that fight for more than equality, you’re lacking in the brains department. The backlash that those feminists are getting now are their own fault, the younger generation understands that as that’s where the backlash is coming from, so it seems they do give a fuck right? And if you think that women didn’t have anything to do with the laws back then, that just goes to show how backward and stupid you are.

    That’s how skewed our society is today, women can bring up anything about women’s rights and no one say anything because some morons like yourself are still riding that rights bus from decades ago. You guys are the reason that feminists has such a bad name these days. As far as jacking off anywhere, looks like another backward feminist view on men, making a general statement towards everyone because of your skewed backward views. I’m sure the people that do that sort of stuff, people like yourself, likes the fact that men have no rights as far as the medical field goes. What I stated there is a fact, I know many people in the medical field, both male and female….shocking right, and that’s just the way it is. Ask any man in your family about their experiences and see for yourself, unless your family only consists of women because that’s how you sound right about now. We can’t request a male only facility you dumb bitch, only women are given that option on same gender facilities.

    Any men in that brings up something about men’s rights in our society is automatically labelled a narcissist or misogynists, yet it’s the misandrists like yourself that are quick to pass that label. If you think men has it perfect because that’s the way you seem to think, then you’re badly mistaken about this world, because no one has it perfect. So while insane feminists like yourself fight for more than equality, what’s wrong when men fight for equality? That’s just where the problem lies and you and people that think like you. What if it was women that had their genitals mutilated, or given no rights and exposed in public like what happens to men in the medical field, would that be ok? So why the fuck is it ok for men to be abused in that way, because of crazy feminist like yourself who sees all men as bad and not care about modestly? Notice I spoke only about the crazy feminists out there and not ALL women, where as you generalized to include all men. Well here’s some advice for you, go see your shrink again because people like you is why they enjoy their jobs.

  • Senzu

    See the way these women work is that they want to have as much sex as men, or even more in many cases from college, yet they don’t want to deal with the consequences. More than equality as usual is what they want or exact. Certain, and to many, women today are just plain whores or sluts or whatever you want to call them, they have just as much sex, or more in many cases than many men, yet God forbid you call them one of those words….

    Here’s the thing about that, you can’t act and carry out actions if you don’t expect the label along with it. Those men that sleeps around a lot…..do you think they give a fuck about what you call them….call them whatever you want and they don’t give one fuck. They’ll agree with you 99% of the times, yet women that act the same way are expected to be seen differently. In a world where we’re constantly trying to achieve equality that a bit unfair right? Plain and simple, they should not complain….the men in their situation do not.

    Also as far as the so called rape situation, it’s just mostly bs. Many girls that go party and hang out tell you straight up that they get high and drunk mainly to hook up, so yeah those girls are just taking advantage of the situation. I know a ton of college girls that do that shit and they’re perfectly know what they’re doing and say it also. Plus how many times guys get taken advantage off at parties and such, guy gets high and end up naked and everyone is laughing right…..girl gets high and ends up naked, and everyone is laughing, but now it’s rape because she was naked without her knowledge. Well fuck that, it’s the same shit.

    Also many girls give consent and then blame the fact that they were high or drunk, well who’s fault is that. A responsible adult should act that way, and in a situation where both involved are high and drunk, and both gave consent then it should not matter, no matter what state of mind those persons are in after they realized they slept with other. Consent is consent…..that’s why it’s fucking called that, you state of mind after should not affect the fact that you gave consent when you were all fucked up and now regret it. In the end though, cases of real rape should be thoroughly looked into and investigated. It’s a real issue and there should be severe punishment for such acts……but make sure it’s real is all I’m saying. Sounds easy but very hard considering the fuckery that’s happening in our society today.

  • AG

    You really enjoy spewing all the insults you can think of out of your mouth.

    You say women get what they settle for, but why is that fair? If I have to work twice as hard to get an interview and a job offer because of stereotypical views and am offered less money, should I just refuse? What if I have a family to support? Your views that women get what we deserve or what we settle for is flawed–the system we have created is all but fair. Injustice is all around, poverty and hurt for both men and women. Solutions aren’t easy to come by, they are an uphill battle because all the while activists have to fight against single-minded individuals.

    Truthfully, my crazy, insane, bitchy, stupid (and whatever other derogatory comments you threw my way) feminist self only hopes for a sense of equality among EVERYONE. White males are the most privileged in our society, but everyone deserves opportunity and respect. Honestly, I deserve respect. I am a person. I know that you don’t and probably never will see me as your equal, but at the VERY least you could see me as a human being.

    If you feel injustice is being brought upon you, fine, those are your feelings and you have every right to them. But please, don’t bitch and moan about how hard it is for YOU, when there are so many people suffering in the world. Is everyone else just that insignificant to you?

    I promise, if you were a non-white female, you would feel very differently. Your eyes would be opened. Unfortunately, you are too wrapped up in your own little bubble, victimizing yourself so completely. Poor you.

    I hope one day you find the justice you deserve, but I hope the same for women, I hope the same for people of color, and for those in poverty, those who would do anything to get out of their situation but just can’t.

    Notice how I chose not to call you any of the things you called me, they have no weight, they do not make your argument stronger. Maybe your just angry about the society we live in. I guess that, at least, we have in common.

  • Senzu

    Women get to see men naked in the medical field, so this is the way men retaliate. Also no one talks about all the dicks pics that get posted along with the naked women. Think about it, unless the woman is spread or doing some crazy ass pose, then it’s not really invasive for her, but the boyfriend with his dick out in many pics is way more invasive, yet no one talks about that. Just another fucked up mentality our society has, it’s ok for men to be exposed like that, but not women. So while the men have to live with it, the women cry about it.

    Well fuck it, I for one am happy we have people doing shit like that and exposing more women. Looks like we’re on our way to approaching equality there, when they treat male modesty equal to female, then I’ll start feeling bad….but until then fuck it.

  • Senzu

    Really? You deserve respect after what you said about me and your hate toward men, haha. Here’s how respect works, and you may be surprised but it’s based on equality also, you give respect you get respect, you disrespect someone then expect the same. Some insight for you there.

    What does everyone suffering in the world have to do with our post here? Just like a typical crazy feminist to change the topic to something completely different. The smarter feminists knows better. Also I’m speaking about men’s rights in general, not once did I say it was just me as you seem to stress there.

    Also we may have the unfair society thing in common, but we’re not the same in our views there. What I stated was facts about inequality and that it should not be that way, but because I’m a man and you have something against all men, you think that what I stated is insignificant and meaningless. See you have a problem with all men, while I have a problem with only women that think like you, which happens to be a very very small percentage of women, so you’re yeah really “insignificant” in your own words. See the difference, I’m fighting for equality, while you’re fighting for more, yet you can’t see that. So you’re not in a good position to judge anyone, I can tell you that much, but at least you show some care about the true injustices in our world which is good.

  • Dirk Diggler

    Natural Law always wins and Life is the best teacher. I have ZERO sympathy for these little fuckwads.

  • Dirk Diggler

    Ultimately, it will turn on them. When our society shifts or if/when Islam takes over the West. I would hate to be a Feminist or SJW in the future.

  • Maude Beaulac

    the game ! WTF. really. please stop playing video games. its life. you have kids teach them the right thing, that whats the message is. we don’t need more stupid men and woman. we need intelligent people with a good level of empathy for others. but sadly todays kids are stuck in a world where the media do promote bad stuff to kids via music, video game, movies and so on. and its us parents who have the JOB to make them understand what it right. but first off parents needs to have been given a good education first or try to improve them self as human beings. Girl and boys need to learn not to do lots of shit that they do.

  • disqus_u54Wtfp3VA

    If she puts someone on hold she met her equal, as in a one night stand.

  • disqus_u54Wtfp3VA

    If it’s hard to make the call, don’t make it if they’re just playing.

  • droid

    Sex is not about power inherently. You would come to this conclusion as a result of abuse.

    A lot of responses to experiencing sexual assault include guilt; maybe you felt desire, but decided as an adult not to have sex. But that decision was undermined and someone took away your control of the situation. So you try to reconcile the desire you felt and the lack of control you had, and replay the game with other people in order to side with your abuser and justify what happened to you.
    It’s pretty similar to experiencing violent assault, and assaulting other people who strike you as being as pathetic as you were when you were victimised.
    I think you’d agree this is a bad state of affairs. I agree with you that it’s important to not treat rape differently from other assault crimes, because it’s not shameful to be raped, and nothing has been ‘taken from you’ except your sense of control in sexual situations.
    A lot of people feel that being assertive and sexually confident would be interpreted as meaning they accept everything that’s been done to them. So, they end up being more vulnerable.

  • Shmalkandik

    White females are the class that benefits the most from set-asides, entitlements, and ‘affirmative action’. They have bogarted on the Civil Rights revolution that was intendned to remedy historic injustices against blacks, and turned into a privilege program for themselves.

  • Shmalkandik

    Millennial females seem to have neglected to cultivate the virtue of Prudence, the duty we owe to ourselves. But if a woman is never the one at fault, it makes sense why no longer seek to be prudent. Prudence was once a fairly common personal name for a woman. Probably not so much now.

  • Matt Warner

    “Education is a weapon whose effects depend on who holds it in his hands and at whom it is aimed.” Joseph Stalin

  • Bongstar420

    I’ve had women force themselves on me in public. No one thought anything of it because I have a penis and testicles

    Talk about double standards!

    And yes, these women wanted the power to force me to do what they want when they want

  • Bongstar420

    I can walk around with a boner all day with out raping a single woman…or even trying to have sex with any of them at all really…but I’m not a slave to my dick

  • Bongstar420

    You should tell your feminist friend that women should just not associate with men who rape. Thats the easiest solution….Rape is most commonly conducted by a man close to her and she usually doesn’t ditch the guy after.

    Another thing, no one is stopping women from having sex with actual nice guys. Its not the nice guys fault she would rather try and change an abuser

  • Bongstar420

    alisa rosenbaum was a fraud. Why else would she pen the name ayn rand?

  • Bongstar420

    No..They want to exploit the position of being a false victim

  • harsheeni

    So true!

  • avatar

    “Pediatricians typically advise young parents not to immediately answer their babies when they start crying for something as a means of helping the child’s mental development. When babies are born, they are self-absorbed and solipsistic, unable to comprehend the world beyond their own needs and wants. By delaying when it comes to responding to the baby’s crying, the child learns that the world does not revolve around them, a crucial step in self-actualization.”

    I have to agree with this. I had a pediatrician for my daughter who told me this helps children figure out how to work through their own stress. But there is a caveat for this. You do not want to allow it to go on for too long. It will do great damage to a child. It should only go on for a very short while. Don’t pick them up immediately, but I would never go beyond a minute or so.

  • NYSGal

    Reading this now, after the Brock Turner incident. I (46) tried to explain to my much younger sister (33) that while Turner was responsible for the actions he took as to the rape, the victim was responsible for making sure she herself didn’t get blackout drunk in public. My sister’s response was that the victim had an absolute right to get blackout drunk in public. That Turner was 100% responsible, and I was blaming the victim. Also, I was a insult to my female sex. I’m glad to read your essay, and find out that I’m not the only person who has more than 2 brain cells.

  • churchboy

    Just being aroused as a male is a f*cking crime to these feminazis. Your masculine sexuality is a sin in their eyes.

  • churchboy

    Tell me about it, i live in Portland. I almost got crucified for denying rape culture the other day.

  • churchboy

    Actually, male circumcision in the US was started to ruin male sexuality. It was to stop masturbation by desensitizing the penis. 20,000 nerves are destroyed during the process. Obviously, it didnt stop masturbation but old school puritanical nonsense said that it would. Women absolutely had a part in it. When male babies are born, its the woman who decides to mutilate her male baby based on fraudulent “science”. These same women decry female mutilation while simultaneously butchering their own male children. Its hypocritical in every way. Has nothing to do with religion in the US. Do some fucking research before you open your mouth.

  • churchboy

    Right?! And if you turn them down, youre just a shallow manpig. I woke up to my dick in a womans mouth once, after i turned her down. I had fallen asleep at a house party and at 5 am i woke up with this fat chick blowing me in my sleep. I just jumped up immediately and left and didnt say anything about it because who the fuck is going to care, seeing as im male. I didnt even tell my girlfriend because i was scared she’d just get mad at ME for it, instead of seeing it for what it is – rape. That bitch sexually assaulted me in my sleep. She even bragged about it to her friends and made it sound like it was all good and i let it happen. I tried to tell them that i was asleep and it was not ok and they all laughed and said, “yeah right, what guy refuses a blowjob.”

  • FOAMgiant

    I am just saddened by my country. That is all I have to say about the leftist plague sweeping across our nation. I just hope when I am old enough to live on my own and have kids, they won’t have to live in a world as sick as the one where feminists influence everything.